My intent this week is to get people who are either strangers or aquaintances I’ve not been able to establish a rapport with to feel interested in talking with me, that is, to be able to exchange casual banter and some discussion. Not looking for a deep heart to heart at this time.
In the past I’ve been fine with small groups of up to 4 people but anything beyond that and people tune out in mid-sentence sometimes within less than 2 minutes. The conversation drifts to the alphas of the group and everyone else falls in line around them. Of course I can force my way in, and have, but then I’m not very good at it so I get the distinct impression that people are being “very” polite. And I feel like I’m making a speech that I’m rushing to end before people start walking away.
So far I’ve used IO 2X twice at an average of 3 sprays both solo and in combo at 3-6 feet distances. Acquaintances have not changed (friends are still friendly in the usual way) and strangers have not been interested in talking with me at all. I’ve also had strangers talking to me when I don’t have pheromones on, so it’s not that I’m entirely unsociable.
I intend to increase the sprays and in combination with others. I’ve also used 3-5 sprays on several occasions of Instant Shine 2X but have not sensed any hits with this one either except perhaps in combo with IH 1X one time so this may have been a non-pheromone thing.
Also, I’m at the stage where the smell of perfume is starting to worry me. I’m not the kind of person who puts on more than 2 sprays of a fragrance so going 3 or more of anything makes me concerned of overkill indoors. The people I generally hang around do not wear fragrance at all so they are bound to be more sensitive. I can put up with “normal” body odor in strangers but not perfume, so I worry when I myself have to put on so much Neroli+cover to get out the pheromones. These days, I have no idea how perfumey I smell.
So… how high a dose should I go for…before the Neroli starts killing the flies.
Honestly, at this point, I just want to know for sure that pheromones work on me.
(used so far in various solos and combos - IShine2X, IO2X, IH1X, IS/A, IS/B)
IS/A - I’ve used a lot in frequency and no hits. (up to 5 sprays on a single day though not all at once)
IS/B - I’ve used a lot in quantity once and no hits at several locations. (4 sprays max) Need more experiments with this one.
I also have P74, MX274, and MX300 which I had hoped to wait to use until I had more experience with the regular stuff but now feel more inclined to incorporate.