So I wore the same combo for two nights in hope to finally reel in the hot waitress in my favorite bar. She didn’t work any of these nights but I certainly had the right mones if she’d been there.
On friday I got the whole female staff swarming around my table like flies on shit and these chicks know that I have something going on with their friend. Loyalty just went out the window.
Given these results I used the very same combo last night and God damn it, she still wasn’t there. I sucked it up and got social. It was mone hits galore. Finally one girl wound up at my table with what obviously was her date. She immidiately declared “Oh, no we’re just friends” and the poor guy looked like he was gonna fucking die.
For my bastard ego I basically got her begging to go home with her, but I just didn’t want to. I thought about the damn waitress.
I guess I’m in love. And I told this girl so. First she looked pretty pissed because I frankly had been leading her on but then turned to the guy she actually came with and he looked happy as a pig rolling in shit.
After a while she turned to me again and asked for a final verdict. My body was screaming “Procreate! Fucking moron, procreate!” but I said I’m good, thanks for the chat.
It looked like her date tried to high five himself. He most likely got lucky last night.
So the combo, gentlemen, is:
P83@40 mcg
3 drops of A314
1 shot of IOx4
P74@15 mcg
1 spray of Tuth
I’ve said before that none and P83 caused trouble for me but evidently it’s IJ I just can’t wear while around drunk people. Drunk men, to be precise. With the Tuth I had no problems at all.
It will be a sad day when I run out of P83. I hope it’s restocked soon…
In my personal experience when I did that, I’ve always failed. Hopefully the same won’t happen to you. Be calm, cool and collective.
My favorite mix is 4 sprays of Instant Shine on my neck (side and front) and 2 drops of A314 or 2 drops of NPA on my inner forearms with 4 sprays of Nautica Competition. If I can’t close the deal with that then it’s on me.
Yeah, I didn’t mean that I’m really in love with her, but I always do take it easy with other ladies when I’m interested in someone. It’s just the way I am. I’m no PUA by any means, nor do I wish to become one.
I have no game, at least none that I know of. Things just happen naturally, even more now with the mones than before.
Oh wait, the mones may nullify the statement of things happening naturally…
Its not about game, its not about PUA its about reality. As soon as you put all your focus on one person, you but a lot of burden on them to make you happy, to fulfill your hopes and dreams. That’s a lot of pressure, and believe me, even if you don’t say it she feels it.
If you have options, and are seeing other women, it will take some of the focus off of her and therefore pressure.
You won’t be hanging around trying to reel her in, you will be out living your life and seeing her when you choose to, not because you just happened to stop by when in reality you planned to be in her presence so she could see you the whole time.
Options don’t just have to be women, but men too. Just create a life that is exciting and keeps you busy and suck her into it. Women want to know they could be your world, they just don’t truly want to be it.
Now you guys sound like you think I’m going through her trash cans by night and doing stake outs taking pictures of her to pin on the walls of my una bomber shack.
Guys, I run two small companies. Neither she or any other woman has a chance to become anything close to being even half my world.
Are you? That’s what it sounds like from this guy’s perspective. The fact is, thegentleman was correct. Women want to feel special and wanted, but they also don’t want to feel like you are playing with them. That’s how I took your post when the woman was interested in you, but you shut her down.
I’m not saying to go to bed with everyone that gives IOI, but don’t lead people on and then burn the bridge. That’s just not a good way to go through life…just my opinion.
I don’t think that’s what Gent was suggesting (although there HAVE been a few posters here that I think would do that…and be surprised that anyone would have issue with it)
Here’s the thing about a lot of the PUA stuff out there, on the surface, especially if you only read the surface…it does come across as trying to learn how to be “that guy” that goes and seduces poor unsuspecting women night after night and never actually caring about any of them.
And I admit there are some guys that will approach it that way, but it’s really about understanding what behaviors and traits women actually respond to and cultivating those traits to where you’re more naturally attractive to a broader range of women, so that when you do wind up with a girlfriend or even a wife; it won’t be because “she’s the one that said yes” but because she’s the one that you chose above the rest.
It’s about options and choice, vs settling for whoever is “in your league”.
Now not going with the girl that offered was the right choice for a couple of reasons. Not the least of which being “dance with the one that brought you”. Her showing you IOI’s while she was with a date was rude and disrespectful to him and shows a lack of class that I couldn’t forgive and I have no room for somebody like that in my life.
However, that’s not why you made that choice (at least your post doesn’t indicate it as a factor). You rejected her because you were interested in another woman, that was not present and not dating you. Until you escalate things with the woman you’re interested in I see nothing morally wrong with enjoying the company of other women so long as there is no duplicity or malicious intent. IE don’t let them think anything that happens means more than it actually does.
In fact, even if you don’t sleep with other women (and you don’t have to) simply having a life where you have attractive women that are social and friendly with you and enjoy your company communicates volumes to other women.
Women are not stupid and are far more intuitive than you may think. If the woman you want sees you in the company of another woman or even talks to a woman that you went out with behind your back. She will know if the woman is attracted to you, and will likely have a good idea of whether or not you had sex with her. She can tell by the way the other woman acts…it’s actually kinda creepy.
And knowing that other women are interested in you, and that you don’t jump on every single chance like a starving man on a steak…well that can be quite attractive.
You’ve been on the money for TWO nights. FIVE more nights of those kinds of hits, and you have a winner! SEVEN days of hits is JUDGMENT DAY, and then you can label it DA SHIT!
Did you place everything in the neck area, or did you smear things around?
What’s your guess on the age ranges of those this combo attracts?
Something I’ve written evidently didn’t come out right.
Of course I go out with and talk to other women. I’m just not all too receptive to sexual invites. Of course I could wind up sleeping with some other woman any of these days but she’d have to be damn attractive. In times when I don’t have any interest in anyone special I’m not that picky.
The lady from last night wasn’t bad looking but not stunning either. And she treated the guy she was with like absolute shit by hitting on me, so her soul was fugly.
There’s no problem to solve here. Thanks for all the input though.
I sprayed the P83 on my head, gave it a real short buzz cut just a week ago so most of the stuff likely found some skin. The P74 and the IO I sprayed on my forearms. The A314 I applied behind my ears and under my chin. The tuth I placed on the chest.
Age ranges I’d say go from 20-30, but I didn’t meet many girls/women under nor over that so I don’t know how well it would do with ladies around my own age.
What it does for teenagers I don’t care. Hopefully no Axe effect that would land me in Hugh Hefner-land.
I went with the basics today … 3 sprays of AMMO x2, 2 sprays to the sides of the neck, and 1 shared by the top of the hands, and 2 shots if IS to the face.
Even though I got these ‘DO YOU SEE ME LOOKING AT YOU, MISTER’ looks and smiles from this blond, decent looking, nice figure, fresh out of church, eating with what could have been mom and sis. I got that I’M GONNA LOOK AT YOU UNTIL YOU SEE ME LOOKING, 3 or 4 times.
What made me sweat was this 11-13 year old chocolate coated little angel, staring at me! She was done eating, and just sitting with both of her hands clinched and resting on her chin, and watching my every move. The bad part is that she was sitting off to my 3 o’clock, and if I turned anywhere to the right to peep at some passing eye candy, I could see her starting! SCAAAAAAAAAARY!
This happens every now and then, but it makes me nervous when the adult starts looking to see what/who they’re looking at. CHESTER is NOT my name!!! :o
What’s going to happen is we’re going to find out that spraying the P83 on a buzz cut hair style is absolutely essential for this mix to work. Something about the rate of diffusion and surface area and proximity to scalp/heat source. Otherwise, the mix won’t work at all.
No problem for me if that were to be the case. Only reason my hair ever grows more than 5mm long is that I just keep postponing the procedure of trimming it. This could bring some motivation.
If P83 isn’t restocked and I run out, the motivation may disappear altogether and I become a hippie.
P83 Diffuses Very WELL… I’ve mainly Used it on the Top of My Shoulders or Sides of My Neck… Both have Proved to Be Good Locations…
Waiting on the P83 Restock Myself, Until then I Picked Up some P78 and P79 to Play With…
This is still da shit, the waitress was not. Bumped into her last night and saw her really drunk for the first time. She obviously can’t handle the booze. First she became overly affectionate and then called me all shades of shit. I just said I’m not a big fan of drama and walked away.
