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Hi all,

Thought I’d post my intro. I’m 27, female with introverted tendencies. It’s really affected my self confidence, career and relationships.

I don’t take meds, just amino acids to regulate neurotransmitters and so on. It’s taken a few years of that therapy to gain some ground, so I’m not running away from everybody.

So at this point I would like to announce myself as a willing guinea pig! What do you suggest I start with? How long do the To Go pheromones last? I was thinking Instant Openness + Honesty to start. Dunno about Sexiness, should I leave it for later? Are there any others I must have?

Thanks!

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hey welcome to the forum,

you didnt state your name so i hope you dont mind hwj,

im a guy so i hope my advice still helps.

IO will make people more talkative around you if used on your wrists or the back of your neck. I have used it on the front of my neck and ive become a blabbermouth at times, but never a dull moment

IH will cause deeper conversations and people might release info you wouldnt necessarily like to know.

personally for confidence, I suggest using A314, either the oil version, or the spray if you cant afford the oil. A314 gives the aura of someone who demands respect, and you will notice some people more willing to follow your orders, and you yourself will stand taller, wider, and more authoratative

again im a guy, so im assuming these have the same effcts on women

Instant shine will put you in an upbeat mood instantly. I use it to wake myself up every morning without fail. i havent personally noticed the confidence effect, but you definitely become happier

if they have it, grab a togo of sexiness to test out

also please give a little more info about yourself. what are your goals with the products?

the togo pheremones have 40 sprays, the regular size has 200 sprays. they last pretty long in my opinion. ive been a member a for 2.5 months and havent run out of anything

so to start, intant sexiness (im not sure if it should be A or B)
instant openness
instant shine
A314 (start with the togo spray)

best of luck

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Hi there Hwj

Welcome to pherotalk :slight_smile:

Well joining the forum and interacting with all of us is a good start. Its not in person but it will help get you used to interacting with others more and put you in a more outgoing state of mind.

You can hold off on the Instant sexiness. They are not in stock just now anyways and I think some other mixes may suit your needs more.

Ishine, this is a warm uplifting magnetic confident comfortable mix.

IO is a attractive chatty fun mix that helps open you and others up more. Makes interaction easier.

IH for deeper communication, feeling of trust comfort etc etc. This is good when you want to get closer to someone or you just want people to feel closer to you.

There are some others you can try but they are advanced and I think its best you start with the consumers first.

The to-go bottles has 40 sprays in it. Generally you will need between 2 to 4 sprays of the products I mentioned but it varies to individual and you should test with one spray first and work up till you find your personal dosage.

If you have questions just ask and we look forward to your participation

No A314 wont do the same thing on her as it would on a guy, in fact it may make her feel out of sorts and more self conscious. You have to have a certain mentality especially as a women wearing a mens mix plus you need to buffer the hell out of it not to come off as a aggressive bitch. Its also way to far off from her natural personality so that concerns me as well.

Tisha

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thanks for ringing in on this tish

so im assuming for women to stick with the socials and instant sexiness?

i wonder if mystery boy would be good for a girl?

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Jnoel

Well we did have a female version of A314. Its MX300 but its out of stock and has been for a while. TAL is another molecule that we use to bring on confident strong female alpha characteristics, also not in stock.

We do use the putatives and experimones and the highly experienced users can even work some of the mens mixes once you know how to buffer well.

Mystery boy could be worn by a girl but I would still buffer it some with female mones.

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Hwj.

Ishine is great for increasing confidence and feelings of well being in both men and women so this one is a good place for you to start. Then if you like those and want to try more hopefully TAL and the instant sexiness line will be back. If not there are still other options. One step at a time :wink:

Tisha

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I’m not a very experienced user like most on here, but I came here for the same reasons initially. Personally, for me the thing that worked most was TAL (chocolatini version). Instant Honesty and Instant Openness did their job with me, but what I needed was to feel a real confident boost and for me it was the TAL that did that. I don’t know if that’s just me, but you could try it out later on maybe :wink:

I wish you good luck with your new pheromones, I hope you get as much joy out of it as I do!

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Wow. What a response.

OK, a bit more info then. I haven’t actually been diagnosed, but I suspect slightly bipolar, maybe some OCD and inattentive ADD.

Growing up, I was always alone (only child too), doing my own thing, no real interest in aligning with the mainstream. Very self conscious, shy and not very connected to others.

Life moved on and as I exposed myself to the unknown, the shyness lessened. I got my degree, had a career (sometimes going places, sometimes nasty) but the anxiousness that I suspect drove the shyness remained. I still have freakout moments but it now leads to procrastination and the revolving door that is anxiety. It takes a lot of energy to keep my mind from moving on to something more exciting, and not deal with the problem that is in fact keeping me behind.

Anyway, my personality is highly dependent on people and my surroundings, I think they call us Highly Sensitive People. Given the right company I can be high as a kite, chatty and harebrained. And I’m pretty good conversationally once I get started. But, given the wrong company, I’m downright boring, actually yawning like crazy. Regardless of either company, I tend to have a problem with eye contact.

Had a bit of a breakdown, and the rebuilding process been quite involved. I’m going through an ‘up’ phase currently, and really I want to make tracks this time. I’m doing a lot of outdoor social activities and learning a martial art, but still no good at feeling comfortable in a nightclub or dancing. Though that could be a challenge (we’ll see).

So I really just want to see if this stuff makes a difference. It might be a worthwhile exercise in terms of career too.

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Namine, have you tried the other fragrances? Any idea on which is the best? I don’t mind chocolate, but want to get it right. Also, what fragrance strength is best?

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Tisha, which female pheromones would you buffer with?

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Well I would use some TAH, bnols to buffer and copulins with it to feminize it more. Its not highly masculine but its still masculine enough. Although I mentioned to Jnoel that women could wear it I dont suggest you start with it. While women can and sometimes do cross over and wear the mens products the female and unisex products are far more effective for us.

The actual default fragrance is neroli for most products. Its a light spicy mildly musky scent. Hard to describe really. It good because you can wear just about any of your own scents over it if you wanted.

The chocolitini they have is nice but can be cloying and doesn’t blend with other scents well.

I like grapefruit myself. Its fresh sweet and just smells yummy.

Keep in mind you can only change the fragrance on the 30 ml bottles and it costs more. You have to buy both the product and the customization.

Tisha

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Well I’ve decided on IS, IO, IH and ISB To Go. I’ll expand my collection (if they’re a success) when there’s more stock.

What else is unisex?

One more thing, is ‘pheromones’ written all over the packaging? Would prefer to keep this sort of thing private! :slight_smile:

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Nope the package just says AD on the outside. No indication at all of whats in it. It actually looks sort of business like or important in a way LOL .

You made some great choices I am so excited for you. You have all the unisex ones covered those are IO IH and Ishine. They used to have more but recently they whittled down there product line. Once you get past those you can check out the more advanced. Be sure to report in the forum good or bad because then you can be considered for reporting user status and get some big discounts on the advanced stuff.

One thing I do want to stress is dont let the “instant” name trip you up. You have to sometimes mess around with dosage to find the one that works best for you. Start by using one at a time and working up from 1 spray till you start to notice some results. Then once you know what each one does for you, you can start layering.

Tisha

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I ordered double strength just in case… I hope I’m in for an adventure.

Do the pheremones actually change you (for example, making socialisation enjoyable) as well as the people around you? I hope I don’t wear the stuff, then find I’m getting reactions I’m not comfortable with (just yet anyway).

Or should I just learn the hard way, and throw myself into uncomfortable situations?

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Welcome to Pherotalk Hwj!

I am glad you already made your decision and have started with pheromones for more understanding and awareness about everything around you.

I think you should look into reading and developing some hobbies that will build your self esteem and help you to realize your self worth.

In addition, we are are here to support and this forum has helped me so much is figuring out what I want in life and how to work towards it.

Let us know about your experiences and how we can assist further.

Your gc was issued! :smiley:

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Thanks Mickaelia. GC used :slight_smile:

Yes, I can definitely see how if they work, it will be a good self development tool.

Actually I probably have too many hobbies. Got to trim the time spent on other things and focus on improving people skills.