You really won’t believe your ears, and people DO spill everything. Including yourself.
I have never seen myself as particularly affected by Instant Honesty, at least not noticeably. I like the intimacy vibe very much, so I wore about 7 sprays of the stuff, then went off to my punk’s house, not even thinking that I might run into his roommate, whom I’m having, ahem, “issues” with. To keep the long story short, I did run into the roommate, and in the covertly snippy way that is particular to us women, my frustrations seeped out. The roommate has no respect for women, including his girlfriend (whom he refers to as his investment) and I ended up calling him out on it, which I had no intention of doing for quite some time, and definitely not in the presence of my punk, since I didn’t want to start any problems between the two.
The roommate lashed back with a few remarks of his own that actually hit me really hard, and brought back a few fears I have carried with me from previous relationships. And despite the fact that I despise crying, let alone in front of people I care about, I ended up bawling in my guy’s arms for a good half an hour about it.
Thankfully his sunny disposition, Sagittarius by the book, cheered me up and reassured me. He and I ended up just talking and cuddling for the majority of the night. The moral of this story is, as amazing as Instant Honesty can be, be careful with the stuff. I’d hate to hear someone else have a similar experience WITHOUT a happy ending.
we are outspoken gabbers that are naturally truthful.
we are the natural outcome of IH
on days where we are either vulnerable or close to “that time” we are going to be quieter or more withdrawn,and thats when we realize IH works on us as well
Thanks for the warning, but quite honestly I really want to know what he thinks of me. If someone is angry with me, I want to know so I can stop doing the same thing to them over and over again. My ex usually keeps everything bottled up inside so I never know what I’m doing wrong. It drives me nuts.
We usually get along very well, so I hope it isn’t anything too bad.
I’m just like you. I rather people tell me the truth than lying to me. I don’t like to lie to others and i expect the same from them but unfortunately it doesn’t work that way so if IH can help than why not use it. I could spend much less time guessing what they really think .
Please let us know how it goes with your ex as i was planning to use it on my ex too! hoping to get my IH soon so i can use it (i’ve been waiting for the package for 2 weeks already)
Yeah, me too, but that was primarily because I chose to order right after the Easter holiday when everyone was on break, and TAF was included in my order and they ran out of the bottles they put experimones in. But it should probably be here in about a week so I’ll let you know how it turns out .
I’ve been getting into my dwindling stash of Honesty x2, and I have to say that if I use a decent amount (4-5 sprays), I get in a dark mood.. For me, I think I need buffers with it, anol, cops to keep it fun and light..
Couple of nights in particular hanging out with my girlfriend and my husband, let’s just say conversation was flowing, but was not being steered towards something positive, to put it mildly.. I guess I got dark, and she was already dark, so it totally didn’t help the darkness. Mental note to self: when experimenting with single products, one must quickly assess target folk and their mood before springing a potential downer on them…
Anyways, I think I want to try CCTM mix 2 next, times like, 10, or something.. at least honesty will be sufficiently buffered.. What do yall think?
have you thought of adding either TAA or instant shine to it?
there are these mixes but im not sure if they are still in the store-
211-215 …they are alphanol and TAA mixes, but with different scents.
i carry the little bottles with me everywhere like BUG spray and if someone acts up they get a little spritz of “nice”.
i havent noticed anyone getting dark with the IH but other people have.
i know if i am wearing something strong, i have to guide it.
be a babysitter.
a hostess.
makesure the show is running smoothly and have back-up when it doesnt .
I have been known to spew the truth when I’m wearing Instant Honesty. I told the president of the company I previously worked for to “blow it out his arse” Let’s just say he wasnt happy. I don’t think I would’ve worded it quite like that if I wasnt wearing Instant Honesty. But hey he deserved it.
I love the stuff but you do have to control those urges to speak your mind. I tweak mine with TAA and that seems to help zipper my mouth while others around me tell me there confessions. It’s a good thing I can keep secrets.
I believe it was Lor who said “Learn not to spill”!
Apparently, I have a hard time with that sans “Instant Honesty”…
Just talked to my best friend in hopes of finding out “what’s wrong with me” regarding certain work dynamics, and as she put it, I am too blunt and don’t sugarcoat and kiss ass enough..
Is there an “Instant Ass-kisser”? I’ll take mine in chocolatini, please…
It seems kind of strange that Instant Honesty won’t affect you as much as others if you spray it in your hair. You’re sharing the same air as they are. Is it because you know about the pheromone and shrug off its effects better?
I’m starting to get a little worried about my instant honesty order. Maybe I should just spike the area around his computer and chat with him through msn instead. . .
If you spray pheromones on your neck, it is constantly wafting up towards your nostrils, where you are continually smelling it. If it is in your hair, it is diffusing around you. It will still affect you, but just not as strongly as if you are sitting there, constantly inhaling it.
If you apply mones on your neck, it is continually wafting upward toward your nostrils, where you are constantly getting a big nose-ful. If you put it in your hair, it will diffuse around you. It will still affect you, but not as much as if you are sitting there continually huffing it.