Looks like most of the products you’ve picked up are of a more sexual nature, and doesn’t quite align with your said goals. You should see some interesting results around the wife though. 
Influence people in what manner?
If I’m reading you correctly, it sounds like you’re looking for more of a boost socially than sexually..
For your purposes, I would have recommended CTTM2, IS, and A314…or perhaps, IO, IH, IS, and A314. These products are more socially oriented and are more suited to your goals. As far as enjoying existing relationships go, the androstenol family really does the trick.
Estratetraenol is a great social pheromones as well. It creates a sort of social magnetism, as well as creating an uplifted vibe. Some report that its effects are more biased towards men. I’ve noticed this to some degree, but it worked quite well overall for me.
oh and btw…
welcome aboard