There’s more to life than girls, even though sometimes it might seem otherwise. Phatsounds makes some good points. If you let society’s expectations get to you, it can hurt you and you start to radiate bad stuff. Find out what’s good about you, and focus on that, don’t dwell on the negative. Be willing to defy the expectations and decide what is important for yourself; don’t measure yourself by what other people tell you.
Having said that, you can probably find out what makes Singaporean women/girls tick. But maybe you are right, maybe you’ld have more fun in a country like Australia or the US. Visit first before you decide. Every society has pressure to do stuff, too. Asian societies have pressure to be reserved and cautious, but American and Western societies tend to punish people that are shy and reserved- in the US there is “lots” of pressure in school to have a girlfriend and be popular, be extremely outgoing, pressure that I’d imagine doesn’t exist as much in a place like Singapore.
