I'm giving up on Asian girls especially my own country ones:(

There’s more to life than girls, even though sometimes it might seem otherwise. Phatsounds makes some good points. If you let society’s expectations get to you, it can hurt you and you start to radiate bad stuff. Find out what’s good about you, and focus on that, don’t dwell on the negative. Be willing to defy the expectations and decide what is important for yourself; don’t measure yourself by what other people tell you.

Having said that, you can probably find out what makes Singaporean women/girls tick. But maybe you are right, maybe you’ld have more fun in a country like Australia or the US. Visit first before you decide. Every society has pressure to do stuff, too. Asian societies have pressure to be reserved and cautious, but American and Western societies tend to punish people that are shy and reserved- in the US there is “lots” of pressure in school to have a girlfriend and be popular, be extremely outgoing, pressure that I’d imagine doesn’t exist as much in a place like Singapore.

Well i better not so to find out why the girls here tick as i give up on them already so why bother? Yes i can have more fun in form of social & culture in other countries like Australia or the US compared to here. I will think of visiting first thanks Daedelus :slight_smile: Correct Asian societies are like that but not all & American & Western societies is a lot more open minded. Thanks for the advice there again Daedelus :slight_smile:

Okay, now I feel bad for not coming in and posting a reply earlier, PhatSounds - but I’ve had a really long day, and somehow, I feel responsible to a certain extent for recommending you TuTH on that fateful evening.

My bad dude, maybe I should have made you skip class and go out for coffee instead :smiley: - but what’s done is done, as I’ve said before, take it in your stride, and well, personally, like what mark said, I would rather you didn’t give up - but you have made up your mind, and ultimately, the decision is yours.

As I’ve posted before, of all Asian girls, and Singaporean girls, for that matter - there are always black sheep which spoil the whole image. Some of them go for looks right-on, some go for killer bods, and some of course, go for money, and power and well, as Bella said, the girls at your age are possibly immature. This is one reason why I, personally, go for older girls all the while - younger girls, for me, always tend to mess up.

That said, I’m rather sad to hear that you’re moving to Australia for studies - I’m curious though, are you local? - because, well, I would never have thought to leave the country which I’ve roughly 4000 friends (MSN + handphone contacts), and, I don’t know.. with that amount of friends, even if a small screwup happens, its surely fixable :stuck_out_tongue:

I also do hope, sincerely, that you are not making this decision due to the fact of what happened. Come on, dude, I was this fat, chubby kid once many years ago who couldn’t get a girl. It was disappointing as hell, but, well, things DO change, and things DO get better.

Anyways, tomorrow we’re meeting up for coffee/dinner yea, dude?

It’s ok buddy you got your stuff to handle & don’t blame yourself on what happened. This is all fated to happen. I understand for you & mark have said there but i stick to my decision & give up.

Well they are not black sheep but heartless black sheep. What you say there are best suited in their criteria. Good you go for older girls instead younger girls :slight_smile: You make the right choice :slight_smile:

I have make up my mind for some time about moving to Australia for my oversea studies. And if i go nobody will miss me here only my mum that i intend to bring her to Australia & live with me after i got a job there. I’m a local Singaporean & i think like that ironic isn’t it? If others follow my example, what will happen to this country?

You are lucky deriw that you have a huge vast of friends there to take care of you there. As for me when i leave here for my oversea studies, nobody will miss me only my mum.

Nah not for what had happened, i have make this decision for some time & stick to it. It was disappointing for what had happened but things never turn good for me only bad.Thanks & reps for your advice there :slight_smile:

Yup, we will meet for dinner tml :slight_smile:

PhatSounds, your decision to move out of Singapore might be more than just wanting to meet different types of girls.

I went to high school in San Francisco, but middle and elementary school in Berkeley. So I didn’t know anyone, no one knew me. That gave me the chance to present myself as whoever I wanted to be. I wasn’t very good at projecting a specific persona so I stumbled a lot, but part of who I wanted to be, became me. I got kicked out my 3rd year, and went back to Berkeley. Once again, no one knew me (hell, the school was big enough that I could have been there the whole time and no one would still know me. :slight_smile:), and once again, I recognized the chance to change myself again. So I did it. Finally, I left home on my way to college and yet again, was given a chance to change myself.

I’m still in the process of it. I left school for a year to “find myself”, and I know I’m going back as a changed person. Removing yourself from one environment and being placed into another, very different environment can be enriching and rewarding, not to mention challenging. It might be difficult for you at first, a lot of Korean students want to come to America to study, but a lot never really make it because they can’t integrate into American society well enough. Either way, that’s not to discourage you, but rather to point out how much courage it requires to leave your home country in an attempt to direct your life how you want to see it.

PhatSounds, if you do go to Australia and study successfully, you my friend, have a lot of courage, and you won’t need to ask your mother to leave Singapore, you will return to Singapore a changed man, and those girls will know it. :wink:

No Phya, i also want to know the culture & lifestyle( getting to know girls there is Secondary). These two are the most important for me to learn when i’m there.

I understand what you have said there & thanks for the advice :slight_smile: I know it won’t be easy at first & i will be expecting challenges there & i’m ready for it with my courage & determination.

Well i have disagreed on that buddy on what you say at the last part, after i study successfully there & i will try to find a job there too, i will ask my mum to moved in with me as there is nothing for us here in Singapore. I won’t return back that’s for sure.

Sorry Phats, I didn’t mean to imply you will. I meant rather, that you could. The choice, of course, is always yours. I’m simply stating that you might find Singapore a different place after you go to Australia, not only because you and your perception of the world has changed, but also because Singapore itself may have changed in your brief absence.

Yeah! I agree on that but you still have to pay the “bus fare”!:stuck_out_tongue: :smiley:

And suffer the long boring bus ride! :roll_eyes: :wink:

Ha!Ha!Ha!:smiley: Well, it depends on how you “ride”?:stuck_out_tongue:

Well I kind of like bring on the bottom, but those damn speed bumps and pot holes can be murder! :stuck_out_tongue: :roll_eyes:

Man this has gone off track!

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Well I kind of like bring on the bottom, but those damn speed bumps and pot holes can be murder! :stuck_out_tongue: :roll_eyes:

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He!He!:smiley: That’s why I told you to use the GPS!:stuck_out_tongue: :smiley:

(Ohhh! Boy! I love Asian girls!:smiley: )

Just take a break and something will come up im sure. But I hear you man, I feel like that with most women. ahaha

They are not all bad.

Ah! Women, they always want to be the “Boss”…fully in control! That’s why they like to be on top!:smiley: :smiley: :smiley:

No can do. When I’m on the bottom, top or somewhere in between, the last thing on my mind is a GPS receiver. :roll_eyes: :stuck_out_tongue:

You know, yesterday I received a parcel from Hong Kong…my female friend asked, “Is that another GPS you ordered”? I said “No, this is something better than a GPS!” (See picture below).She shook her head and gave me a sarcastic smile!:smiley: :smiley: :smiley:

(But please don’t get the wrong idea like my friend, it is actually a body massager!:smiley: )

It’s ok buddy. i understand what you mean there. Well it’s up to me to make the choice. Thanks for your concern buddy :slight_smile:

Yes buddy a very expensive bus fare & you might end up broke too :stuck_out_tongue:

Correct & broke too Mark :stuck_out_tongue:

Yes buddy it depend on how good is your skill there :stuck_out_tongue:

Well i understand what you mean Shocker but my door is closed for my country girls here but open for the other countries girls. Yes not all are bad i agreed on that. Thanks :slight_smile:

You are 100% correct buddy there :smiley: They are like that want to be in the same league with us guys.

Whoa what is that buddy? It doesn’t look like a body message but very much a p****:roll_eyes: No wonder your female friend shook her head & give you a sarcastic smile. I apologise if i offend your product there buddy.

P.S. Someone negative rep me again because of my font saying he/she don’t like it. What the hell wrong with it? Does it hurts your eyes is it? I will stick to my font no matter what. As mark said there before, don’t let anyone influence you & believe in yourself & your decision.