Hi! I’m a musician, and play keyboards in 2 classic rock bands. On stage I have no fear, but am somewhat shy off-stage. I was wondering about the Come Talk to Me, Ammo, and Instant Shine to help build some confidence and compensate for my lack of charisma. Our lead singer has girls crawling all over him, and I would like to see a somewhat similar reaction!
Hi and welcome!
Instant Shine is good for lots of us, Ammo too - at your age I’d maybe go for the double strength Ammo but whatever you use start low and work your way up to find your sweet spot!
Mones don’t do everything so you have to still work it, but if you have everything else in place they can give you an edge. Don’t think you have lack of charisma either - ACT like you do and see what happens!
I’m 36 and I like IG for a charisma vibe - it’s got a good rep with some of the younger users I think but I like it too. Instant Shine + IO + IG is my charisma combo. Find your own sweet spot for each though before combining for best results!
Good luck, and let us know how you get on!
Hi infinityman and welcome to the forum!
I think you have made some excellent choices for your situation.
Ammo is the best stand alone product for attraction - it will also give you confidence and approachability.
The social pheromones will aid that attraction and give you a much more positive vibe in social situations.
IO for an increase in quantity of conversation and an excellent icebreaker.
IH deepens the quality of conversation and creates intimacy.
IShine is a mood enhancer and makes you and the people around you feel great.
The best of luck and let us know how you get on.
Mackie
Thanks so much for joining PheroTalk, I’m super excited to have you here. It’s always great when a new member discovers a world so full of endless possibilities. The only limits to mones is our own imagination 
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OK I am infinityman- Iam 55 from Oklahoma. I work at a music store renting band instruments to schoolkids in band, so it is involved in music, which I love. I also play keyboards in 2 classic rock n’ roll bands on the weekend. Although it is rewarding both financially and musically, I sometimes feel “invisible” onstage- at 5’7" I am the shortest one in the band. I color my hair and mustache/goatee- not too much, it looks natural- and although I am considered the best musician in both bands, the lead singer, guitarist and drummers seem to get most of the attention from the ladies. I am serious about my craft, try to smile as much as possible, but am still a bit shy about approaching the ladies. I heard about pheremones and thought maybe I could get an edge to make up for the lack of charisma I seem to put out. Am studying all the products and deciding what to purchase.
I have posted three band photos, and hope this is enought to qualify for the $25 gift certificate offered. Thank you for the consideration!
Hello and welcome to the forum.
You have gotten some pretty good phero advice so far so I will not go into that much further - plus Mickaelia has wieghed in so there you go.
I will let you know that myself, renny and mark-in-dallas are all just a little younger than you so you can kind of use us as a guideline. Both Mark and Renny also have journals you can dig into …
Of course everyone’s body chemistry and personalities are a little different so you will still have to experiment some but at least you have a good starting point.