Influence on tennagers

Just to throw this out there…any recommendations on what would be good to wear around teenagers that are out of control and won’t listen…my friend has a daughter 14 and son 15 that drive him crazy and I was wondering if he could use a product or 2 to help him have more of a handle on them…

geez, well I have a brother who just turned 14 and he is the same, he doesnt listen to his parents aside from when our Dad uses severe discipline but he resolves quikly and is back to his…anti-social…ways. Anyhow I have noticed I can get him to behave, for a while anyway, when I am wearing a little A314 and sometimes even a tiny bit of Turn Up The Heat. My hypnothesis for this is that A314 says “Im in charge, you do as I say” and Turn Up THe Heat says “I’ll kick your **** if you dont do what I say”. Then again, im his brother so I cant get done for child abuse :cool:

Won’t listen?

A314 might be good for helping get some respect from the kids - HOWEVER, if they are rebelling then there is a decent chance they are rebelling against authority - A314 creates distance and promotes authority

So it could have an opposite then desired effect - They listen less/are even more distant. Of course the parent would also have to act like they were the one in charge, authoritative, determined or incongruency would be an issue. Incongruency could already be an issue, parents are supposed to be “authority” and if your friend is allowing his children to go “alpha” over him…

SO I would not choose A314 for this situation unless your friend has the disposition to act like an “alpha” towards his children - if he can be a pushover then A314 probably will hurt more then help.

I would suggest Instant Openness and Instant Honesty, maybe even Spaceland - Instant Openness and Instant Honesty are both designed to promote communication - If he can start communicating with them on a higher level then some level of trust/respect can perhaps be created.

Spaceland I’ve heard is a great way to relax yourself and others around you… less tension = easier communication

EDIT : Sorry Jamie3500, but I wouldn’t suggest Turn up the Heat at all… especially with the male child - 'none is known to create aggression between males and I sincerely doubt that if he is already having a problem, that more aggression is the solution.

Sorry Wrlprchnx, I shoulda cleared that up. I DO NOT recommend Turn Up the Heat seeing as he is their father. It works for me though because im still in the same sort of age range (teens).

To handle teenagers at this age need lots of patience. Force or show of power is not the best solution. We need to understand them and sometimes we got to be their ‘friend’.

IH is good to let them talk personal and deeper with you. You will understand them better. You may understand more of their problems and what they need.

Thats total normal for teenagers. They are rebels, and they grow from it. Guess that the pheromones not will make any biger deal in this situation, deppending on the teenagers hormone production.

i am a classroom teacher and a314 is very effective as a standalone.

i also use honesty a lot with good results . i have have used spaceland a

few times and also openness with good results. however spaceland will

make the students giggly and silly. after you know your kids and the rules

and regulations are in working order;spaceland is good to lighten them up

and foster communication. again instant honesty works very well as a

communacation phero for me and the students. no matter what else i use ,i always use a314 every day

o yeah i forgot, i’ve never had good results with instant heat.that is like putting gas on fire with younger kids. a few time i used ammo and it was 50/ 50 some responed ok,mostly female and some did not , mostly male.
but for the most part younger male and female don’t respond well to none . they can get mad .aggerssive ,defensive and fight.

something else that DOES WORK WELL is taa or instant shine