Greetings to all. I have spent several hours reading these forums and figured I might as well go ahead and register since I plan on placing an order relatively soon.
I’m a 27 year old white male currently going to school in Colorado. I stumbled across an add for a different pheromone product on the web and became curious. I did some searching and ended up on this site which seems to be by far the best resource out there.
My interest stems from a problem which I’ve experienced much of my life, namely that I come across an unapproachable. Based on things I’ve been told, I believe this is brought on by a reputation for being intelligent combined with being naturally quiet. I think people who don’t know me generally put the two together and assume I’m not interested in talking to them when, in fact, the opposite is true. This has caused me to build very few friendships over the years and even less romantic relationships.
The reactions I get from women in particular are unusual. Despite my shy nature, I will approach and talk to a woman if the circumstances are right and I usually get a positive response and can have a decent conversation. However, if there is to be a second or third conversation, I again will have to be the one to initiate it and, until I do, it’s like we’ve never spoken. To draw an analogy to pheromones, I feel like I’ve been using too much A314 (despite never having used any pheromone). Once I do initiate another conversation they are once again friendly but generally speaking, if I don’t talk to them they don’t talk to me. I realize I could be missing the signs and this awkward avoidance is actually repulsion but being of average attractiveness, I think that’s statistically unlikely.
Having said that, I believe most people can see I’m looking for something to put people (particularly women) at ease around me and hopefully encourage more conversation. Based on what I have read, I believe Instant Female Magic, Instant Shine, and Instant Openess would be most appropriate for my needs…and perhaps some Ammo just to play with. 
Any comments and suggestions are most welcome.
Hi durik,
Welcome to the forum. Nice long introduction.
I am more or less like you, quiet, shy and giving the impression of unapproachable.
You have done good research. Definitely social pheromone will be suitable to you.
AMmo can attract girls in general.
Instant openness and CTTM will make girls more open to talk to you.
Instant Honesty will make girls take deeper and personal with you.
Try buying some social pheromone and try it out. You may start with to-go bottle until you find the best pheromone for you.
Good luck
You might want to consider staying away from anone products like ammo, at least at first. Read up on the “bootcamp” sticky at the top of the men’s forum to get some idea of anone effects.
The social products, io and ih, should be of help. These will help to make conversations flow.
IG will give a masculine vibe without the drawbacks of anone. Mixing all of the above will give many of the positive effects of ammo without the potenital negative in your case.
I don’t agree. It looks (to me) that in this case durik seems unapproachable not because he is a threatening alpha, but rather because he’s more of the quiet type. (Feel free to correct my assumption, if it is incorrect ) Perhaps a bit of -none is just what the phero-doctors have ordered! Something to draw attention in a way that hasn’t been happening yet.
So, I would recommend Ammo and perhaps CTTM.
welcome to the forum
just as gone with the wind said, dont start with none. social mones like IO, IH, IFM, and IG will help u alot. IG is like A314 but with out the intimidation vibe. it gives u a nice, helpful trust kinda vibe.
hope this helps, cya around
bond
keep a journal and see what works and what doesnt
im very similiar to you with the natural vice i give off
i finally placed my 1st order today
we’ll see how it goes
Hello Welcome to the forum
Unapprouchable Huh ??? As long as you dont think they dont approuch because they feel threatened (Physically) by you then you should be able to use anone products.
I suggest AMMO and IO to start out with.
If you have any questions just ask.
Your GC will be in your email box in the next 24 to 48 hours
Have fun
Tisha
intelligent and shy. oh how it sounds like me describing myself… minus the intelligent part. Keep in mind that even with pheros, you still have to “play the part.” Put it this way, bathe Freddy Krueger in 10 gallons of Shine, CTTM2 and spaceland and you’re still going to stay the hell away from him. If you’re frowning, looking mad and frustrated, pheros might not help. I’ve been told countless times, even by relatives that I for some reason seem unapproachable. So even when I use pheros, I still have to try to be approachable, make it easier for others to approach me, and approach others myself.
Here’s a great post on “Congruence,” matching what you’re wearing: Congruence? What's That?
Hope this helps and good luck on your phero adventures.
Zeph, your comment just about tipped me over
I placed my first order today…ordered IS, Instant Female Magic, Instant Openness, Instant Honesty. I ordered the To-Go sizes so I can experiment and figure out what I like. Based on some of the comments I decided to stay away from Ammo for now, I was only going to order it out of curiousity anyway. I will let everyone know how it goes when my order arrives.