intelligent and shy. oh how it sounds like me describing myself… minus the intelligent part. Keep in mind that even with pheros, you still have to “play the part.” Put it this way, bathe Freddy Krueger in 10 gallons of Shine, CTTM2 and spaceland and you’re still going to stay the hell away from him. If you’re frowning, looking mad and frustrated, pheros might not help. I’ve been told countless times, even by relatives that I for some reason seem unapproachable. So even when I use pheros, I still have to try to be approachable, make it easier for others to approach me, and approach others myself.
Here’s a great post on “Congruence,” matching what you’re wearing: Congruence? What's That?
Hope this helps and good luck on your phero adventures. 