There are times when I want to be alpha, there are times when I want to be sexy, and there are times when I want to be cuddly. I know about the pheromones for all of those.
But what if I just want to be… well… nice? Not happy like MX135 (my grad program is one in which it would be inappropriate to be too happy all the time… trust me). Not shiny like Instant Shine (sometimes it’s better if you don’t stick out too much). Not talky-nice like Instant Honesty or Opennesss (being able to keep my mouth shut is key!). But just… nice. Patient with people who are annoying. Helpful to people who don’t necessarily deserve it. Kind to people who are unkind to me. Not shiny, not happy, not chatty… but just plain old nice. EDIT: But not at all cuddly or helpless!!! I’m aiming to be nice to others who very stressed out, and therefore not nice to me.
I’ve heard a lot of people recommend EST, but when I looked it up at the online store… it’s crazy expensive. Are you all independently wealthy???
I thought I remembered reading somewhere on here about how the prices change as you post and review… Is that true? Is there a specific way/place to review to to get these special prices?
No, not EST. I need this for when I’m splitting my time between patients and tired, cranky attending docs. I’d like to be as nice as possible, but not least bit cuddly!
When you’ve posted enough reports, you will get the hallowed ’ reporting user’ status which will give you huge discounts on some of the experimental products. The purpose of this is both to reward people who assist with the research but also to encourage new users to learn to walk before they can run. It took me about 4 months but if you’re a phero crazed whirlwind like Xiphoid, it could be a matter of a few weeks.
Instant Female Magic may be what you are looking for. There is a men’s version and a women’s version. The men’s version is somewhat buffered to keep the depressant effect for men at bay.
You can spray this on your chest or the front of your throat so you get the self effects of it without it diffusing out to others too much.
I have not personally tried it, but from what I’ve read P96 would be a good one for this as well (P96 saves Christmas). The problem with this is, #1 it’s out of stock and #2 it may be out of your price range if you’re not a reporting user. Instant Female Magic was formulated for such a use though (eg, during your monthlies).
Hmmm, this is a thought. But tell me, why don’t they give everyone the men’s version. Wouldn’t it be desirable to keep the depressant effect for men at bay, regardless of your gender?
You would think so, and I have wondered this myself. Perhaps it’s because the original purpose was for women’s personal use, and it was assumed that men would not be interested. Thus the men’s version came later when it was discovered that men had a use for it, too, but there was an unwanted side effect for them? Instant Shine originally was conceived as a men’s product, but it was later discovered that women loved it as well.
IFM for women is tempered so that it works on women without bringing the men down. Its calming and good for PMS
IFM for men couldnt be tempered while still keeping the other attractive affection qualities along with the calming effect. The mens product is set up for there needs pheromonally not self effects.
The percentage of men who get a down feeling from IFM is very low. Spraying it to the back of neck or using Ishine or IO with it solves the problem if it does occur. Just like Ishine once they become accustomed to it it subsides.
There are several potentials. I’m assuming you want something relaxing that will leave you clear headed, and that dampens down negative reactions in yourself?
MX274 is always a good mix. If you are interested in trying putatives, P102 is good, but you will have to find your sweet spot with it. It is pretty powerful, so less is more. 2.5 mcg is probably going to be effective. If you wear too much your coordination can go off and you can become sedated. But I think MX274 is your best bet. You also get the added benefit with MX274 that it has been very well tested, with no negatives that I have seen reported. It is an awesome mix.
I wouldn’t recommend Est, since it engenders care-taking behavior from others and that can include some elements of disrespecting your autonomy. I don’t find I get any self-effects from Est, other than increasing my sense of smell and the ability to pinpoint and identify different odors.
the only thing that truely makes me nicer and appear calmer and more at peace is the EST.
i am easily approachable and people arent comfortable when i leave their sight.
unlike a few here, i dont get cuddly at all.
i dont get attraction, i get
super-comfort.
if i wanted to get people calm and comfortable which translates into nice, but i also wouldnt mind some hippy-love-train community-oriented togetherness with me at the hub,
i would add TAH.
i have a super-big separate bottle of H molecule just for this purpose.
Cuddly & nice…
with EST people are soooo nice to you, very helpful 
