There are several potentials. I’m assuming you want something relaxing that will leave you clear headed, and that dampens down negative reactions in yourself?
MX274 is always a good mix. If you are interested in trying putatives, P102 is good, but you will have to find your sweet spot with it. It is pretty powerful, so less is more. 2.5 mcg is probably going to be effective. If you wear too much your coordination can go off and you can become sedated. But I think MX274 is your best bet. You also get the added benefit with MX274 that it has been very well tested, with no negatives that I have seen reported. It is an awesome mix.
I wouldn’t recommend Est, since it engenders care-taking behavior from others and that can include some elements of disrespecting your autonomy. I don’t find I get any self-effects from Est, other than increasing my sense of smell and the ability to pinpoint and identify different odors.
Diane