Phermones - 3rd day Sat Oct 16th
I woke up that day - even though tired from my lack of sleep - very energized from the phero combo applied the night before.
I guess I had a little “mischief” vibe to me, as I’ve noticed a more intense attention from guys in the gym that afternoon.
Went to the work/strip club at 8 pm with some IS on. Very energetic and in a good mood.
When getting readya t the club I’ve sprayed 2x IO, 2 IH and 3 or 4x can’t remember of IS/a. Got lotta attention and compliments from the white male customers, who wouldn’t buy a lap dance from me, but were buying LDs from the plain janes/girls next door look dancers ?!?!?
I know for a fact that they were attracted to me, as they tipped on stage, started conversations… but I also think they were either puzzled or intimidated with my independent/ self confident vibe --Not turned off at all, but I got the impression they felt “safer” to get dances from the plain janes. I was too “exotic” and “wild” — not something those married guys in a conservative area run into everyday for sure, and for some people the already known thing, is not necessarily better, but safer. if you go to strip clubs - it was a bachelor party - and going to feel guilty – why go at all?? I don’t get it.
However, one of them, the most intoxicated one, I think the alcohol gave him the “cojones” , bought a LD from me. He had no money left, but told me he gotta get a LD from me even though he shouldn’t be cashing out more money. While he was paying me, he was asking if the amount was enough (???). I was like “yes, that is the standard price of a single LD in the club”. He couldn’t believe I was charging the same for a LD as the other dancers… he thought I was so hot, therefore I should be more expensive??? That was the first ever… lol. Plus, while he was getting more $$ out of the ATM, the DJ just announced a LD special 2-1, and I told him "you are a lucky guy, as I am on sale, and you are getting 2 LDs for the price of 1. He thought I was joking, he couldn’t believe he was not only paying me $20 for a LD, but also getting the “sale deal”. He was in heaven ???
All his pansy friends were cheering him when we went to the LD area, and even cheering more when we came out. Felt like high school, when one of the boys got to go out with the hottest chick in school, and the other ones who couldn’t muster the courage to ask her out, stand by on the sidelines cheering… weird… I felt like I was some trophy being displayed. None of the plain janes got that reaction when taking of the “boyz” to the LD room. The expressions… “got a lot of respect from this group” and “she is outta my league”, come to mind.
Ah, my cute cutsie kept saying I was too gorgeous for him, he couldn’t believe I agreed to dance for/with him… I am not really sure he got the Strip Club mixed up with regular night club. He definitely though I was way out his league.
“Friend: That woman is beautiful. You should ask for her phone number.
Guy: No, she’s out of my league. (meaning she’s too good for me and might reject me because I’m not as good looking or as rich or as popular as her.)”
However, the non white customers responded well to 3/4x IS/a — so, I suspect that the race/cultural factor is a hugh factor how a guy will respond to the pheros… in some races/cultures the male is more agressive, and that’s not the case in the white race/ American culture.
Anyhow, I think I will tone done the IS/a back to 2x — the night before I wasn’t that intimidating to the general male population in the club, or viewed as a trophy.
This night was something weird altogether. Again, got the same dirty looks from the same girls the night before, and the same chit-chatty reaction from some of the them who until then were “aloof”.