I’ve been doing some experiments lately by only using Instant Sexiness A and not using anything else. Given what I’ve read on this product, I try to be careful not to overdose in general and take the rules of application seriously - one spray on each wrist, rub them below the ears on the neck and rub the excess together so that the liquids are rubbed in.
I’m almost certain it’s the IS/A at work because I tend to think bitchier than usual. I admit that I’m one sometimes, but does IS/A make a woman who’s already sometimes bitchy even bitchier? You know, think more nasty thoughts of other people or feeling more irritated when certain things happen? (Think boyfriend pissing you off in ways he didn’t mean to.)
Well if you think about what mones actually do which is enhance your persona as well as effect others personas then the anwser is yes certain mones can amplify bitchiness in you. This dosnt mean you cant wear it effectively though it just means you need to buffer it with something to combat that.
I need to buffer Heavy TAH products or I get to ditzy I am more of a A TAL personality with a shot of ditzey normally, so if I wear a TAL products it enhances my strengths and if I wear a TAH product it enhances my ditzey side.
I also need to buffer anything with anone in it more. I am not a nypho or anything but I tend to think about sex and sexuality alot and if I wear straight TUTH I get a bit out of hand LOL.
When I wear IS/A it matches my personality more then the B does but I find a way to work with both of them effectively.
Those of us who do better with IS/B often feel irritated or bitchy (who, me? :o) when wearing straight IS/A. It’s almost like you get a sense of entitlement … “what, don’t they realize I AM THE QUEEN??!” IS/B feels woooonderful, though.
If you want to temper the UberBitch reaction, spray a bunch of TAH on with your IS/A. Adding some EST won’t hurt, either.
LOL. Do the boys wear Instant Sexiness too? Haha. Yes, I confirm that I am female, but people on other forums probably mistake me for a guy half the time. IS/A seemed to work well today when used with Instant Shine and Instant Openness - maybe it’s because I was wearing it on its own the other day and people around me were being really disgusting? (I’m in China right now, and the things that happen around you can be so gross.) But how bad would the reactions go if you’re wearing IS/A in a room full of women in a social setting? And what does EST do? It sounds real evil.
Hang around girl, and let the other ladies like Tisha, Carrie, Kitten, Inkling and the others take you under their wings and help acquaint you into the magical phero world. You’re gonna love it!
And yeah, some of the guys are playing with the womens pheros, I and Renny and several others are tinkering with TAH and TAL, but the ladies play with our toys too!
Instant shine and openness may have been buffering the bitchiness this time. I react to it as Carrie described consistently, where you might have been in a bad mood to begin with or in a point of your cycle that you reacted negatively. Test on yourself more with and with out the buffering feel good products to see.
If you are still reacting negatively, you probably are more suited for instant sexiness B or mx135. Reading up about tal and tah might help you to understand it a bit more too.
I agree your probably a TAH girl which is why the buffering with Ishine and IO worked with your TAL strong IS/A .
Unfortunatly mones are not always one size fits all. As you learn more about the products and how they work for you you will also learn to tweak and buffer them to fit you perfectly.
My suggestion would be the same as Carries, get some TAH which is inexpensive and give yourself a shot of that when your useing IS/a this way you can still get the benefit of the product without the mood it causes in you.
EST is great, Its evokes more touch and attentivness its sort of reminds me of Love in a bottle and it can soften mixes up nicely. Its expensive and out of stock right now but well worth looking into later.
Don’t we just wish that some things could come in one size fits all? But then again, it probably wouldn’t be as fun as mixing and matching.
Okay, from what I’ve been reading in some of the older threads on IS/A and IS/B, I understand that A is Angie Jolie and B is Marilyn Monroe. But how do we determine whether we’re naturally a Jolie or a Monroe? Do we do so by analyzing how well/badly we react to IS/A and IS/B on their own? And how do we know for certain that it’s a good/bad reaction when we smell it on ourselves?
I don’t own IS/B, but what are the sort of reactions you went through when you are affected?
I understand your conundrum. I am having the same problem. I thought I preferred IS/A (my first purchase). But I tend to feel a little PMS-ish with it.
Yesterday, I wore it with Instant Openness and Honesty. Bad mix for me. Everyone reacted negatively. People were grumpy. I felt FLAT for want of a better word. Oh, I did not wear it with LAM which I usually do - which must balance it out. I did feel BLAH!
I guess like me you will have to keep using the A or B without too much other stuff in different situations to see what works.
Well think about Angelinas persona, She is strong sexy independant assertive confident.
Now Marilynn, she is soft kittenish girlly sexy confident.
Which one do you feel you relate more to ??
Angelina TAL IS/A
or
Marilynn TAH IS/B
This will help you decide which one fits your personality best and the self effects you will get.
For me, IS/A attracts alpha males who feel non threatened by a strong women and some Beta males who like to be dominated.
IS/B attracts more Beta males who are quiet, shy or sensitive, and Bad boy types
I can lean that effect one way or the other depending on what products I tend to use with it. The effects on types men may vary slightly for every user because we all have are own natural mone output to consider.
Looks like you’re seeing the light phernoob. And that basic guideline is nice and simple, thanks tisha.
To be honest, I really don’t know which one is definite. I have a tendency to be a real bitch (I don’t mean in the nasty way!) half the time in situations when I feel confident - so it’s Angelina here. But other times…I have a tendency to be the shy unspoken one, so does that make it a Marilyn?
I mean, I know for certain that I’ll be making an order for IS/B at a later date to test how I react to it.
Meh, I must be getting sleepy if I’m unable to explain myself clearly at this stage.
But yeah, I’d love to continue hearing what others have to say about IS/A effects on the self.
I do think your a B (Marilynn) But she was anything but shy LOL
My very first bottle was of B and like I said I felt ditzy and out of sorts so I bought a to-go of A to test out. But B dosnt come in to-go size so to save money before you invest in a big bottle of it you may want to get TAH and still use your A but give yourself a shot or two of TAH to your chest so it wafts up and effects you.
I can’t agree with the Angelina/Marilyn comparisons. I am so NOT a Marilyn personality type. All that I am sure of is that instant sexiness A makes me less tolerant of irritation and if the mood is there, I’ll snap.
Instant sexiness B does not make me feel all soft and fuzzy it is still a very strong signature for me to wear, but, I do not feel like I am so short fused while wearing it. Mx135 does make me feel soft and fuzzy on the other hand.
Honestly I think that whatever tal may be, I am naturally a heavy producer of it. Where I completely lack in tah. My husband is neither dominant or submissive, but he surely loves me in tah more so than tal most likely because he can relax I won’t be biting his head off for rubbing me the wrong way. LOL
Also I am developing my own little twisted theory about tal/tah, sex and the husband. While he is interested in being intimate when I am wearing instant sexiness A he sits back waiting to be devoured. Which doesn’t work for me at all, been there done that, fixing it with tah. Tah heavy mixes on the other hand make him the aggressor.
Inkling’s experience matches mine. I see IS/B as something that balances my energy, not matches it. It brings out the feline and she’s not a fluffy weak little kitty. There’s no dizziness, ditziness or anything like that; it’s playful and sensual and much more overtly feminine than my usual persona.
IS/A feels like too much of what I’ve already got - independent, in charge, tends to make men defer to me and look to me to lead.
In some cases, it requires some sort of balancing act - too much of something you’ve already got makes it over the top. I’m already a little madam, so IS/A must have made it more apparent in me.
But for now, I’m actually liking IS/A as long as I don’t use it on its own - most of the guys I tend to meet are the alpha boys, and they seem to adore me. On the other hand, I’d love to see how they would react to IS/B / intensive TAH.
Ok, you all are bringing up some interesting points. Especially if a girl already has a little dominance or confidence - IS/A would just be too much.
Carrie, you said B balances you. I think that is me too. Also, the kind of men i really prefer spending time with are Beta males. I loove artsy guys or musicians.
Wow, this is complicated and amazing at the same time.
Exactly. I’m playful, sexy, feminine and assertive naturally. Never, in my life, had trouble getting a date…or a man. And I do not need pheromones to do it.
Instant sexiness/A or B works for me. Which I use alone or in combination, how much I use and how I use it depends on my own mood, what I’m doing, who I’m going to be with and the results/reactions I’m looking for. A delicate balancing act that takes plenty of time and testing to achieve.
My husband reacts to both A and B. But he definitely prefers B. His job is very stressful…full of testosterone pumped egos…it’s a battlefield. He’s had enough aggression. At the end of the day, my boy’s lookin’ for soft curves…not a hard edge. Of course in certain situations, again depending on mood etc., he’s also good with a more aggressively sexy me! Then again he’s open to surprise…he may be expecting Marilyn in the soft angora sweater dress…and when he opens the door…there’s Angie in a black catsuit. Keeps things interesting…very interesting.
If anybody would like some Instant Sexiness/A, for free, I’ll just tap my..ah…self and send it to you ASAP.
I am more of a A TAL personality with a shot of ditzey normally, so if I wear a TAL products it enhances my strengths and if I wear a TAH product it enhances my ditzey side.
IS/A seemed to work well today when used with Instant Shine and 