For my first purchase about a month ago I ordered instant sexiness only in togo size so I’ve been using it sparingly. Also I heard that spraying to much may not have the desired effect. But since I made a new purchase for the full size I’ve stopped being so stingy about usage, and I found that spraying it close to me has better results even when sprayed more than once.
-Instant sexiness twice to the chest
-A little lust after me and eow in lotion on the neck wrist and arms=)
-A bunch of little spritzes of instant openness behind the neck and maybe wrist
-Instant shine on the neck and armpits
Come to think of it I can see how the reaction is quite different from using instant sexiness alone. Usually the differences a subtle in self effects but today I felt like a different person. This extreme difference (which I liked) was a bit short like maybe 30min to an hour, The rest of the day was a more subtle. I’m shy so when I say extreme difference, I mean I spoke with much more confidence and was less super careful about what I said words flowed right out with more ease when talking to customers. I couldn’t recognize my own tone.
I think this is the instant sexiness + instant openess at work.
I think instant shine is also vital when using almost anything. 
The last time I sprayed instant openess alone I had a huge argument with my bf. Stuff I’d normally let go I felt I needed to talk about, and I wouldn’t shut the heck up. Although this could be viewed as “Standing up for myself.” It was not a pretty night.