Read a thread, here, in the lounge that reminded me of this article below of this writing,
figure it might be of some interest. 
Oh! there is a slightly risqués picture of a lady in lingerie, that is in the
article, just a Warning so no one becomes suprised! :o
I like that! 
but the links don’t work 
or it doesn’t on my computer
Sorry about that, Msselva, link fixed!
OK. so this makes sense. Intelligent women understand whats more about whats going on, they’re more interested and involved in sex and that would in turn get their guys more involved…
Turns out they are not talking about intellectual inteligence. They’re talking about emotional intelligence! Just a few years ago i would have considered that an oxymoron. Two words that don’t belong in the same sentence. Now I’m to the point where I just can’t understand how intelligent decisions can be made using emotions.
If there is emotional intelligence, then there must be emotional stupidity. Geez, I know i’ve been exposed to enough of that.
Could somebody explain emotional intelligence? Maybe give me a reference. Is an intelligent emotion the same as emotional intelligence?
I don’t get it.
OoohYahhh
I’d look at this in a slightly different way… women who are comfortable with their feelings don’t experience anxiety to the degree of women who are less in touch with their emotional life. Anxiety produces a feedback mechanism in the brain that effectively shuts off pleasure, which leads to more anxiety, etc.
Men can have the same issues with the same consequences. Too tightly wound means no goodies in the sack.
Diane
Hope this helps,OoohYahhh!