ok so about a week ago i posted my first thread. keep in mind i have IO, IG, IH, and TuTH. my (gay) boss has chewed my ass 3 days in a row for things that i either didnt do or where out of my control. a girl i was suppose to go on a date with bailed on me and is hating to the fullest degree on me (i have no idea why) and for some reason i get the feeling that some of the people i usually hang with are acting wierd. i dont know if the mones have anything to do with it, but i have been so busy lately that i havnt had time to pay attention to whats going on. all of the above dont really matter to me. my boss will get over it, that girl was high maintenance anyways, and the guys will either get over it or tell me whats going on. the first part of the week i wore 2 sprays of IG and the second part i wore IO.
the real reason im posting is because an old girl freind is coming into town. we dated for years, and have been apart for about 7 months. these 7 months have been so hard, trying to make a long distance relationship work is a task in itself. we’re on and off. weve been broken up for the last month and i am surrounded by gorgeous (college) girls that would definatly be down to have a great night. I dont know why but im split, im attrackted to these chicks but i cant pick up on them, the drive isnt there to fallow thru. i mean im down to get laid, but not down to have them around after. and i cant help but start comparing…
idk how we agreed to have a night on the town but shes coming back this weekend and i really want to leave a good impression on her to take back and think about when im not around. she’s semi-shy, and she knows me better than anyone has ever before. i dont want to wear too much to the point where she is turned off or gets a bad vibe, but i do want to wear some to the extent that she is more turned on around me and also more interested in putting in the effort to make this relationship work untill we can be together again. i got tickets to a play and a hotel room for the night. what should i wear? is TuTH too much? i cant really fool this girl shes already made it thru the gates.
last week sucked, i dont know if the mones had anything to do with it, but i would give the air in my lungs to have a great weekend with this girl… suggestions?
Just my two cents. Okay. It sounds like you have a ton of different things going on in your life right now. It could go either way as to it being related to the pheromones or not. If you haven’t been already, start slowly and work with each product one at a time and then once you get a handle on each one you can start working with combinations. I figured out early on that working with pheromones (especially in the beginning) was very much a learning experience. Certain products (such as Ammo) you can just throw on a couple sprays and go. Most everything else requires a bit of testing to find what amounts work best.
It sounds like you aren’t over your ex yet. Being around gorgeous coeds doesn’t light your fire right now so don’t try and push it. Just relax and don’t put too much pressure on yourself. When you feel like getting to know someone else better, then go for it.
As for this weekend… Even though you are new to pheros, I’ll suggest a combo that you might want to try in advance before your ex comes into town. 1 spray TUTH to the throat. 1 spray IG to either side of the neck. 2 sprays IH to either side of the head in your hair or neck and 1 split between the wrists. You’ll smell pretty strongly of neroli at first but that dries down within about 15 minutes and you can cover with the cologne of your choice. (Either spray over or next to the phero application points).
My logic-
TUTH will get her motor running for when she’s up close and in your personal space (You are young so you really don’t need very much androstenone) Instant Gentleman- Makes you seem like you are more of a VIP in her book. Someone strong and dependable- boyfriend material.
Instant Honesty- Works very well in my experience to help people bond and open up about what is important to them. Not quite as approachable as Instant Openness but as you said, she already knows you so you don’t have to worry about breaking the ice.
Dude, for one, make sure all your regular bases are covered, go get your hair cut, buy a new shirt etc. She hasn’t seen you in 7 months, you’re basically getting a second chance at a first impression.
IG will give her the impression that you’ve matured a lot since she last saw you.
Shine (I frigging LOVE this stuff) adds some charisma she might not remember you having. Basically the combination of the two gives the impression of you simply being a better you than she remembers.
One and ONLY one shot of TuTH reminds her of why she found you sexy to begin with, only now it’s stronger and she’ll associate that with the new improved you.
And instant honesty so that in spite of everything, she stills feels close and connected to you.
ya those combos sound good. thanks for the input guys. and ya i have all of the bases covered, all the way down to a new ride. i dnt know what to do past that, but im pretty good at keeping the night going with conversation and fun bars to hit up. hopefully all goes well, if not ill head down another road. thanks for the input guys, i dnt want to sound as a whiner, and i have all the confidence in the world for it but i dnt want to have a bad night, especially a bad night due to me putting on the wrong mones or putting on too much and screwing up the mood. im new at this still so i dont know how much of what to wear and what the potential of this stuff is. i kinda hav an idea that used right and it goes north fast, used wrong and it goes south even faster. pretty mush dont want to OD, this would b a bad night for it.
i have a midterm tomarrow, if i tried out that combo would it affect me at all like break my concentration or anything like that?
It sounds like you have a good handle on the situation. I can only speak from my own experiences. Whenever I wear that combo I suggested I get a feeling of having a confident, masculine presence and I am actually able to concentrate without any issues. Shouldn’t be a problem.