greetings, and salutations from southern cal. my name is rafael and i go by “ray” ( although at 61 years young i also answer to “gramps” ) if you are wondering about the odd user name it is the same one i use on ebay. at my age i try to keep it simple, real simple, ya know, re-cycling my user name means less to remember, and thats good because as one ages the first thing that goes is memory, followed by-------i forget (ha ha!) no, seriously, getting old, if you can, skip it! of all the things i have lost over the years, i guess i miss my mind the most! oh, before i forget, (no pun intended) the user name, strato1957, is due to my passion for guitars, playing them, building them, collecting them and so on, and yes, i am very lucky indeed, because i am the proud owner of a 1957 fender stratocaster electric guitar, and lots of other “vintage” musical items. but none of that has much to do with why i am here on this web site i’m here because i am in need of help, and it is my hope of hopes that pheromones might be just the ticket that will provide me with the help i need. i don’t know squat about pheromones, or their usage, other than a very basic idea of what they can do and thats it. but having read several messages in the pherotalk forum yesterday, it became evident rather quickly that this web site is overloaded with a lot of very knowledgable people! hey, we’re talking way past average “smart” here, even “real” smart isn’t close, these folks are in a whole new catagorey smart. i believe you might be close with “wicked” smart, yep, thats what i’m talking about! and then as i read more, all of these very nice and polite, well schooled and brilliant “veteran” members seem to feel that their mission in life is to impart all the knowledge and wisdom to others, like me, so as to educate us, and help us avoid the costly pitfalls, of which i’m sure there are many. oh yes, did i happen to mention that all of this service is done at no charge, like for free!!! are you kidding me!!! these helpful people, or “coaches” are not working for the pheromone company , there isn’t any “paycheck” at the end of the week. they are providing their time and service because ------well, because they care. wow! what a concept!!! while it was basicly sex that motivated me to seek out this site, i will be pleased if i find that pheromone usage has a part in bringing out some of these great social qualities, sex or no sex. well, what do some of the rest of you newer members think about all this? i mean is it just me, or are there others out there who feel very “welcome” at this site,and find yourself getting that warm and fuzzy feeling all over? it has only been a day or two, but for me, when i come to this site, it’s like thanksgiving day, and i’m just minutes away from grandma’s house! it’s like ----- coming home. well, as usual i’ve got a novella in the works, and i’ve yet to even start in with why i am here and the nature of the help needed. i will try to stay on point, if that is possible.o.k. the situation is this, my wife of the last 15 years is talking about divorce, she has fallen out of love with me because i was a total jerk. i allowed myself to get consumed with work to the point that i did not meet any of her needs. she had been calling out the last couple of years, but i pay attention, until she said she is leaving and plans to file for divorce.yep, i heard that loud and clear. i have completely changed the situation and my self. whatever was wrong, no longer is. any thing that was bad no longer is.while she sees this, and agrees that all is like it once was, and should be, and sees that i back to the guy i used to be and then some, she says it is to late, she has lost to much feeling. i know that she has several years of accumulated resentment, and resentment and the anger it fuels has washed away allof our intimacy,and the lack of that stops her from wanting any type of affection, at least from me anyway.she is quite a catch,great person, good looking, makes big bucks, recession proof job,the only thing that might work in my favor is that she is very shy, and not wanting anyone now and not for sometime to come, so i need to move quickly,before others do.i love her and im not going to just roll over and give up. i will fight to win back her love until hell freezes over.just in the last week or so she has changed a little bit. the slight change is in her demeaner about not wanting to be touched, it is like if we are out meeting for lunch, it is public, and she lets her guard down a little as she knows nothing can happen, and she is receptive to small dosses of affection. if we are at home where it is private, she is more guarded. i believe that she is sometimes on the fence aboutsex, but afraid that it would send “mixed” signals, or give me false hope. well my thinking is this, if i were to apply a sent on myself that rendered her helpless, and caused her to desire me, to the point of sex, she would believe that feelings for me must stillexist and it could then be the start of something to build from. i’m 61 and she is 54. what do you suggest? please help!!!
Nice to have you around strato ( or better Rafael )
Welcome to the friendliest and most informative site on the Web dealing with pheromones 
ahh you already know 
Wow that´s what i call good intro !
Man the first sentence and i had to laugh … you´re quite a funny guy … that´s the kinda people we need here !
I´d wish to play guitar as well but my ears are too bad for doing so … ( few years as a DJ killed them )
You say that you´re in need of help .. you found the right place Dude … as this is not only a board wher people are discussing Pheromones .. it´s a helpful crowd .. including many professionals .. who are into self help and life improvement .
I can agree .. you´ve said it … we´re smart .. hehe
No need to be worried .. when we ( i most of the users here ) started with mones we did not know much about them as well …and does not each long journey starts with the first step ?
And that you´ve been been motivated because of lower reasons to seek out this site is totally bad and not acceptable … ( just kidding )
But it makes me sad to hear that you´ve got such huge problems in your relationship …
let´s see what we can do there …
i think the main problem is to get the trust back and you need something bonding … once there is trust .. and women feel comfortable ..you know where this leads if you throw in the right spices then .
from your introduction it sounds like those procucts will help you to achieve your goals
( mones are only tools as you surely already know and it´s on you to use them to best effects )
As you´re already back into establishing trust and Rapport with your Lady you should consider to get some
Instant Honesty
- it will deepen conversations and will bring the trust back … it´s bonding and your wife will be open up and tell you more about what moves her heart
- it´s a conversation generator … it will help to break the ice … and it facilitates the starting of conversations … and it creates some comfort
Instant Shine
- it´s a staple in nearly everyone´s arsenal even if you´re very experienced … it´s a mood enhancer .. four you and those around you … and it makes you and the ones exposed feel good …
and it gives you an youthful glow ( this one you definately need )
TUTH
- to spice up things when you´ve established more Rapport and to get things going … women over 35 react fantastic to None which is the main ingredient in TUTH and be ensured that this one will help you a lot
A314
- what makes you give off an safe and secure vibe … you´re da man with this on … it´s Alpha in a bottle and as you say you´re wife is a business Lady she will surely like this one as well !
I will your wife feel safe around you … you´re radiating strength and trustworthyness ( oh i hope i typed it right ) with it on
btw … talking about the products … do you have other goals in using Pheromones … for work … and how would you describe your personality style … i know you´re fun but i don´t know if you´re more outgoing or more introverted … and how would you rate your social skillz ..
do not forget to check the stickies because of the shared and collected wisdom in them and check the thread about how to get the 25$ welcome GC … do not miss it !
as well i think you should read as much as you can in the main board … make some notes … and post and ask questions …
we´re here to help ..
AND check the product descriptions in the store … and then let´s discuss what has catched your eye ..
Pago
hey pago! thanks for your instant reply,it has boosted my spirits. i am only all to awear of how the film industry will blow things way out of reality, but---------- what i could use is whatever they gave matt damon in ocean’s 11, or 12, that had cami diaz hanging all over matt like a horny cat in heat!!! i know, i know, it’s hollywood.
hey pago! thanks for your instant reply,it has boosted my spirits. i am only all to awear of how the film industry will blow things way out of reality, but---------- what i could use is whatever they gave matt damon in ocean’s 11, or 12, that had cami diaz hanging all over matt like a horny cat in heat!!! i know, i know, it’s hollywood.
Heya Rafael
there are indeed many wrong pictures created in the heads of people concerning the effects of Pheromones ..
if they´d work like in the AXE commercials i´d not want to use them ..
but if they´d work on Cameron Diaz type women … and as good as in the Ocean´s 11 i´d buy them in kegs …
… invest some time in checking the stickies … and this thread ..
it covers a lot …
And
… Rafael … how good are you in reading body language … this would help with your relationship as well ..
and … there is a guy who´s doing some Hypnopoems ..( i think that´s the name of his site )
if you´re the type of guy who likes this … it would be worth a try !
Pago
Welcome strato and have a nice time here
…and always be sure your allways as old as you feeling yourself
To beginn just have a look at the instant line and check them out to find a product which is working for you and which also creates the desired effects!
About the products in the instant line I can tell you
About the products in the instant line I can tell you
A314 which gives you the signature of an realy alpha and warm that up with some Instant Shine and Instant Openess
Instant Openess makes you approachable and also gives you a real talkative feeling as a self effect
Instant Honesty for me is much like IO but the talk will go much deeper and in a more emotional than funny way
For breaking the Ice go with the socials described above and also try some Instant Gentleman in the mix with them
Instant Gentleman which I like this very much and it got me great results gives you a warmth, charismatic alphaness
Instant Shine realy makes good feelings to you and all others around (and you know you can’t have enough good feelings)
And to get some things done in a hotter way try some TUTH for the sexual edge!
You have written a great story and I’m sure it will not take a long time until you get your 25$ GC!
Just get some togo size products to test several products out and find your taste!
Greetz
man, i’m telling ya! i am soooooo glad that i found this site!!! it was just dumb luck, i kinda stumbled and fell into it. nah,the more i think about it, considering how quickly the replies are coming and the quality of the help they contain, and all of it tied together with sincere honesty and a side order of compassion, nah, i didn’t find this site via dumb luck, no way! i now can see it clearly, i was “led” to this place of warmth and humanity by “providance”. well, thanks to you and pago reaching out to me with much needed info, i now have a point where to begin, and a good map to get me there. it is time to start my “homework”! thanks again guys!
pago, my man! you have clearly been around the pheromone “block” many times, as you seem to have mastered not only the main “routes” in and around here, but all the alleys, and pathways offering shortcuts as well! I can see your journey along the highway of life has taken you afar also, I mean, you reach into your pocket and out comes the hypno web site! I never would of come up with that. well,that goes to show I was right on target, your not just smart, no way, your “wicked” smart!!
pago, my man! you have clearly been around the pheromone “block” many times, as you seem to have mastered not only the main “routes” in and around here, but all the alleys, and pathways offering shortcuts as well! I can see your journey along the highway of life has taken you afar also, I mean, you reach into your pocket and out comes the hypno web site! I never would of come up with that. well,that goes to show I was right on target, your not just smart, no way, your “wicked” smart!!
I´m speechless … uhmm .. THANKS..
i thought by your writing style you´re surely a guy who can use it and benefit from such things …
Hmm i´m simply a lot into seduction stuff … the Hypnopoems site is not the most known .. but i think it´s a good one to work with … especially to reinforce romance !
Let us know how it goes .. AND THANKS AGAIN
Pago
Welcome to pherotalk Strato!
I see that you already got some excellent advise from my team and I do agree that instant gentleman is one of the products u must have to give of that vibe that you are dependable and reliable.
It is not in stock now but wait a few days for our stocks to be settled and then you can make your purchase.
Your gc was issued!