Intro Time

Hey everyone.

Just discovered this forum/the whole Phero community and it’s intrigued me enough to give this stuff a try. (Nice to see a website like this that isn’t complete bullshit).

I’m and 18 year old guy and am currently attending a University as a sophomore on the East Coast. Looks wise I’m actually pretty good-looking, 6 feet tall, blonde hair, pale, and skinny. My personality is goofy and fun, and I can be pretty funny around my friends and people I’m comfortable with. However, as handsome as I may be now, I was a pretty ugly kid. When I hit puberty I got acne BAD. Like you couldn’t even see the skin on my cheeks or neck, and my back and chest were in pretty bad shape too. Being a bit overly sensitive as a little one, I became super shy and for a lot of my life I was just pissed off and felt victimized by everybody. But alas, I cleared up (thank you accutane) and decided that this was a shitty way to live. So around the beginning of my senior year of high school I gradually became less and less depressed as I made some more friends. Going to college was a big growing experience for me as well and Freshmen year was a time where I really learned to be more happy with myself and enjoy life. I’ve made a bunch of really great friends and have been enjoying my self thoroughly, but there’s still an element in my life that I feel is missing.

I don’t blame anyone anymore for having such a shitty miserable time growing up, but because I closed myself off so actively from the outside world for so long, I feel like I never really developed socially in important ways. My biggest problem is being unable to talk to girls, or just strangers in general. This is probably because I’m still terrified about the idea of sharing myself as a person. I’ve been making efforts to change that, and always try reminding myself all that stuff about confidence and what-not, but I feel like subconsciously there is just some barrier that keeps me from connecting with people on a personal level when I first meet them.

I won’t really go into specifics, but it generally takes about a month of continuous interaction before I feel REALLY comfortable around someone. I can try to act suave and cool and confident all I want, but I’m starting to realize that people can usually smell bullshit a mile away. And I’ve learned that there really isn’t anything wrong with my personality and sense of humor. I’m pretty smart and can actually keep a conversation going pretty well, but there’s always some vague social pressure in the back of my head like “don’t blow it” whenever I’m talking to new people that I can’t just think away. Lmao, at the risk of sounding cliched, you just have to get to know the real me.

I’m getting frustrated with my attempts at bettering myself and am starting to really just wish that I was different. Not in any kind of superficial way, but personality wise. I’ve been having a rough time socializing and I’m afraid my brain may just chemically function this way and wasn’t really sure what to do about it until I found this site.

After skimming through some of the threads about different -mones and -nones, and getting down the basics of what some of the different sprays do, I knew I had to give this a shot. As I’m sure it was with most of you, the prospect of getting laid easier was appealing, but what really sucked me in were the ones like Instant Shine, which just get people to open up and smile around you, which is something I would honest to god love so much. Just to be able to make people smile.

I’m pretty busy for the next week, and am holding off on ordering anything until then, but I’m excited to take some of these out for test runs, and would greatly appreciate any advice you guys have to give.

Lol so there’s a little look into my life. Hopefully you all enjoyed it enough to give $25 worth of free shit XD

Thanks,
TheGilroy

Welcome Gilroy

It seems that you have some problems with your social life, your confidence and your social status!

Mones can’t do all do work for you, but they can definately help you in a big way! But I also recommend you to try some hypnosis or nlp to boost your confidence and learn some social skills!

Mones don’t only work on others they also work on yourself! Some mones have really strong confidence boost on yourself as effect and high status alpha male as signal on others!

First you should get some products which are in the instant line and learn how to work with it!

To become really good with mones you have to make a long journey in the try and error principal!

But after this time you will have amazing effects with them!

Just see it as a new hobby or sport it will take time to become good!

I suggest you to try A314

A314 gives you the signature of an realy alpha and warm that up with some Instant Shine and Instant Openess for nice social effects

or go with IG instead of A314, it’s a bit softer

*(Instant Gentleman — Classy, High Value Male Pheromone - Alpha A314) very much and it got me great results, it gives you a warmth, charismatic alphaness but not so “bossy”

about the other instant line products I can tell you

Instant Openess makes you approachable and also gives you a real talkative feeling as a self effect

Instant Honesty for me is much like IO but the talk will go much deeper and in a more emotional than funny way

For breaking the Ice go with the socials described above and also try some Instant Gentleman in the mix with them

Instant Shine realy makes good feelings to you and all others around (and you know you can’t have enough good feelings)

And to get some things done in a hotter way try some TUTH for the sexual edge!

If you have questions you will find help here in this section

http://www.pheromonetalk.com/mens-pheromone-advice-tricks-tips/

But don’t think about losing money! You only can win here because Androtics is so confident that you will like their products that they will send you a 25$ GC !

Here’s an introduction how you get it

How do I qualify for a $25 gift certificate?

And first start with the products in the Instant Line, later if you are more experienced you can start into research with the experimone or putative series!

I can tell you there are some hidden goldies, but they are also much more difficult to use

Greetz*

Hi there, all I can say is what a great and amazing well thought out intro!!!

Good to see another young fellow college student on these boards. All i can say is sorry that crap went south and you had some rough teenage years. Luckily you are here and mones can help make a big difference.

As you have brought up yes get instant shine, every response I give its something I always recommend. The thing can do you wonders personally and socially!!

As for talking to other people try Instant Openness or Instant honesty, both will help break barriers on the social level. Instant openness is an icebreaker, while honesty helps deepen conversation and communication on a more personal level.

There are a lot of mones to choose from If you want something alpha go instant gentlemen, it works great with college professors and older peers, Another thing to try is ammo, this gives you a sexy attractive vibe, though skill and personal action is what will make this work.

Anyways I hope you find what your looking for and best of luck on your phero journey!!! use the 25 GC well :wink:

Welcome to the forums!!!

Good to see another young university student here on these forums.

Sorry to hear that things went south when you were young. Luckily for you phermones are here to help!

I would say for you def get Instant Shine. the thing does work wonders and can be a great social mone. There also ammo you can try which makes you seem sexier to others. You can also try instant gentlemen as a alpha product that works great for guys around are.

Always remember though the mones are some magical formula and requires some personal skill to get the best results.

Anyways good luck and I hope you find what your looking for.

@XPX

I’m aware that these things won’t be a total cure all and that I have to do the heavy lifting. I am excited about getting to test these out and see how they work though.

Yes, that’s the best mindset! go for it, with the 25$ GC you can try it nearly for free

Hi there Gilroy,

you hae already been given great advice by the two guys above, would recommend that you also start a journal once you get into the mone scene in more detail.

Reason being that it is important to unwind and look back once you establish a good enough grasp of mones :slight_smile:

Gilroy,

Welcome to the forums :slight_smile:
Like you, I was also a late bloomer, in terms of being a social person. I went through the same situation in my teen years, so I can definitely relate. One thing I can say for sure is that mones have provided me the stepping stool to rise above former insecurities and enjoy life more. I find that social interactions have become more fun and easier.

A lot of good advice has been given here. I’d just like to add that A314 is a great product to try. If you think the price of the oil is too steep, you can try the spray version, which produces similar effects. The main difference I’ve noticed between the two is that the oil version’s effects stick around longer per application.

When you get your GC, recommend picking up IG and IS to go. It will pretty much be almost at no cost to you and are also both great products.

I wish you the best of luck! :slight_smile:

Welcome to pherotalk Thegilroy!

You got some great advise and its easy to recommend the products that go with your situation but not easy for things to turn around.

Take it slow and remember , the first thing you need to do is work on your confidence and just feeling comfortable with you.

A journal and spending time with persons who were in your situation will help.

Your gc was issued! :slight_smile: