Hello from sunny London
Im a 39 year old woman. I’m interested in attracting a particular male ( 41 years Old) and read that pheromone would help me. So I recently purchased NPA for women, I tried it yesterday ( dabbed behind my ears, wirists and neck - i didnt mix it with my perfume) but didn’t get any reaction.
Any help would be appreciated, am I using the product wrong? anything I should do
Thanks
Hello from the Midwest. I have a couple of questions that might give you an answer. one where was the setting? Two did you seem approachable? A male might be attracted to you but if you give off an aura of being approachable then he go to the next. Pheromones get you in the door if it’s the right amount and but there are some actions you have to take.
I think setting is also important. Some places men and some men will be reserved in their approach, stone not all don’t want to generalize
Thank you for coming back to me, I was with him all day, ( as we work together)
I have to admit he was tired as we had been out the night before and we were both a bit hungover
We have known each other for about 15 years so we talk all the time so I dont think I was giving a unapproachable aura
We are spending the whole week together next week so really want to get this right.
Thank you so much for your help
Ok you are dealing with the make issue of awkward change. He is comfortable about the way things are a change is ackward. Here is what I suggest you do. First Make A List Of All Your Positive Traits You Offer A Mate. Now when you two have a conversations ask him about traits he wants in his mate. You doing this because you want him to verbalize his thoughts because you want him to bring these thoughts in his conscience mind because when you reveal that you match those traits. Now you laid the foundation to eliminate his inhabiting. Now it’s your job to seal the deal by convincing him that the benefits of being in a relationship with you instead of holding his ackwardness in his long underwear by himself
Ok thank you, will the NPA help at all?
Plenty of us guys like the male version of NPA a lot but not many can comment on the female - Presumably its a fairly up-front sexual product like the male? Still, Lacroy products are usually pretty decent but may need some social moderation to make them more usable in polite company/work etc. IH and Instant Shine are a unisex paring that do very well and encourage a feelgood, confiding, sharing, bonding vibe that helps get any sexual interest/fantisies out in the open.
One thing, I would mix it rather than just dab - NPA really needs a scent to help it project well in wider use. Dabs can work very well but in much more limited environments like hot, steamy clubs where the atmosphere promotes diffusion - anywhere cooler and it won’t project/diffuse at all well, so will be next to useless. Decent disposable pipettes can be got in the store here, or from pharmacies or in great big boxes off ebay.
Also, I don’t know if the female version suffers but the male NPA is prone to suddenly breaking down to a god-awful stink. Again, a scent helps keep this in check.
Thanks Mobcaster, yeah I think NPA for women is the same as the male version.
Thanks for the tip in mixing it, we were out and about a lot on Friday when I was wearing it so maybe you are right and that’s why I didn’t seem to get a reaction
Do you know how many drops I should use to mix with my perfume?
Thanks for your help
If the mixing ratios are the same as the mens version, the starting dose for mixing is 1:4 - 1ml of NPA, to 4ml of scent and I’d suggest that rather than drops, you get yourself some pipettes or a 5ml measure to do it accurately. 5ml travel atomisers/medicine measures are easily got at Boots and the like. Drops are never that accurate a measure at the best of times and NPA’s dropper is not one of the most consistent, although off the top of my head, around 20 drops is reasonably close to 1ml.
At 39, you will probably find your best dose in the 1-3 spray range but you may need to go up or down in dose to get the best solution for you. With male NPA at my age I can go up to 2.3ml into 5ml but that needs a pretty robust scent to cover it. Mostly I stick to the 1-1.5ml and use a less full-on cologne/more sprays.
Also when you choose a scent, a good quality/triclosan-free scent is best as triclosan and other antibacterials can damage pheros badly and cheaper scents are laden with them. Similarly avoid these compounds in body sprays, antipersps etc as they can all be detrimental to phero use. Go for quality every time! 
Thanks Mobcaster, I am popping to Boots shortly so will pick up 2 travel atomisers
I perfume is Channel number 5 so a good perfume
Wish me luck!
and thank you again for your help, I will let you know how I get on
Hello All 
this is my first time posting here. I’ve tried many blends and am looking forward to many more!
Cheers!
Michelle
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