Jlynn -
We are ALL stunners. ALL of us. Inside AND outside.
you better believe it. I’m serious. If you believe it, its true.
And like Carrie said - it’s not “extra help.”
It’s magic, its passion, it’s mystery, its interesting, fun-loving, remind-me-I-am-alive, kick-me-in-the-butt, wake-up-my-life.
It’s the space between a breath.
It’s the whisper of the wind.
It’s the sunshine warming your skin.
It’s the solitude of the ocean horizon.
It’s the giggle of a baby.
It’s the wiggle in a puppies tail.
It’s that indefinable something that keeps life interesting, that stops you in your tracks when you see it, experience it. It’s not exclusive for anybody, required for anybody, or meant to “help” any particular person.
They dont give you a leg up on that Hottie at the end of the bar. They enhance your LIFE, all of it, and your EXPERIENCE of it. It’s living to the fullest.
And that, my friend, is far hotter than anything else that Blonde Hottie has. 
Diamond is a very good friend of mine, and HE is nothing if not an arrogant, conquering the world man-whore.
I love him to bits and pieces. He’s got his life in the palm of his hands, and is having the best time ever, thanks in part to these pheros and in part to seizing his life and demanding to live it on his terms. For that, he is gorgeous, drop dead sexy, and a man to be desired.
Welcome to the forum, Jlynn. 