Ok. So I finally get out of the house last Thursday to go visit my target.
IS/A Neroli 2.5 mcg: 4 sprays to left and right neck (yeah, I have 2 necks), top of head, and split to wrists. Instant Honesty Neroli 2.5 mcg: 1 spray somewhere (forgot where I put it), possibly my head.
Environment #1: Target’s office.
Self effects: None.
Effects on Target: It was awful! He was cold and argumentative and defensive and just downright mean. OMGSH, I almost died! Instead, I cried (on the way home of course). Maybe I smelled like feet, not sweet.
Environment #2: Grocery store, 1-1/2 to 2 hours later
Self: None.
Others: Nothing. I made eye contact with people but no hits.
Environment #3: Congregation 4 hours later (not where I would normally be wearing IS/A but it was a last minute decision).
Self: None.
Others: I was speaking to someone, and this other gentleman that I know, who rarely greets anyone and most certainly never smiles, came up to speak with the person I was speaking to. While he was standing there waiting for us to get done he touched my arm so he could shake my hand and say hello. He did this while I was still talking to the other person.
Environment #4: Home 5 hours later
Self: None.
Others: Ladybugs were trying to fly on me.
Tomorrow morning I am going to see my family doctor. There will be no undressing of any sort so I was thinking of wearing something to experiment - but not anything sexual!! Let’s make that clear right away. Perhaps something that will put him in one of those “sure, I’ll give you anything you want” moods.
I am definatly thinking your a TAH girl and not a TAL girl which is why your having trouble with IS/A.
Let me talk to steveO and I will see if he will send you a bottle of TAH on me to spike your IS/A with.
Or your can Pm me your addy and I will mail you a to-go of mine so you can try it out and see if it softens the TAL in IS/A. Dont worry I am not a stalker or weirdo LOL. Well maybe a bit weird but not in a bad way. (snort)
That’s an awfully harsh reaction… Could he have possibly been in a bad mood to begin with? If it’s not too personal, may I ask what your relationship is with him? Have you had past romantic dealings and you’re looking to rekindle? Or are you starting from scratch? I’m sorry to ask so many questions, and you’re welcome to ignore some or all of them. It’s just so odd that IS/a would cause a really negative reaction from a romantic interest. I would think, if TAL didn’t agree with him, it would cause no reaction more than negative. Of course, I could be wrong. But maybe the negativity stems from some other part of your connection together. It would be helpful to know when was your last meeting and how that meeting went. So we can clearly see the difference.
I mean, I am a TAH girl to the point that TAH has TAA like affects on me. I have to spray IS/A away from my face because I don’t care for the self effects for me. I believe this has to do with the TAL. But IS/a still gets hits from my TAH loving bf. It’s just that TAH gets even better hits.
Actually, no. This is not a romantic target for me. But I thought if he became attracted somehow that it would pave the way for me to achieve more control. Oh lordy. I sound like a scheming little deviant. It’s not as bad as it sounds. No, really.
You are right about this. It is a very complicated situation and one I would feel more comfortable PMing about. Using IS/A I thought would afford me an edge where I could gain some control in the relationship. I only know of 2 things that make a guy start to weaken, and I refuse to rub a T-bone steak all over my body and wash my hair in Budweiser.
Tisha is right. I’m not a TAL personality - just thought that by acting like one it would give me the results I was looking for. NOT.
One of these days I will have to relate this story because it is quite interesting, but for now I can send a PM. Tisha, I already sent you one.
You know what I went through the same thing a little delayed effect though. So I happened to be wearing IS/a and some others when I pumped into the ex. He totally tried to ignore me as his friend couldnt get his hands off me. Fast forward 7 days, we’re yelling at eachother on IM.
There’s a saying that when guys are mean to you, it’s because they have some sexual tension towards you and really they want to get with you but have been denied. So they go out and try to hurt you to make up for their bruised ego. If this is the case with your scenerio, adding more sexual tension only causes more flare ups…HAHAHA. As was the case with mine… Granted there were a series of other hurtful stuff that was exchanged between the two of us. But the underlying feelings are there, whatever smoke screen the present.
I think pheromones make you attractive to insects, unfortunately my bug of companionship is the flea, who has been gnawing at my leg. Uggg. Now I can’t wear skirts!!!
