Cawa,
I’m going to offer information based on my experience and I hope others will chime in with their level of knowledge as well…
The person that GUY is…he will always in the end be…if you were hot and heavy with the mones, shower and wash it off…that is the real GUY you have after.
Mones are kind of like a subconscious suggestion…they will only SUGGEST you to be more interested, interesting etc, they won’t hold over for the long haul. Check out this link: What Pheromones Can Do And What They Can’t Do
Last bit…if someone is stressed out…it will be hard or them to have an affect. Think of it as a fight or flight situation…If someone breaks into your house and points a gun at you…you aren’t going to be thinking…I could use a “ham sandwich” in that moment. Yes it’s a very VERY drastic metaphor to attempt to explain how stress over-arches pheromones…but the bottom line…is that the more stressed someone is the harder it may be to notice affects if any. They may think you look and smell lovely, but be so preoccupied as not to be able to deliver any IOIs