Hi everyone! Here’s my report on Instant Sexiness B. Maybe some of you will have suggestions for improvement, thank in advance! Sorry the report is so long, wanted it to be detailed…
Went out with a girlfriend yesterday,then to a bar and then a club. I had 2 sprays of IS/B to my neck and 1 spray between the wrists. No self-effects noticed, no reaction from my friend. Since we’d walked to get to the bar, I thought that maybe the scent evaporated too much, so after getting no attention at the bar, I reapplied IS/B: 1 to my hair (since I was walking past guys and standing in front of many at the bar, I assumed I’d get more of IS/B into their noses via diffusion from my hair). Hm…no hits!!
I mean, a bar full of mega HOT guys- and not a single one turned around even! But my friend had guys brushing up against her, trying to take a photo with her, even chatting her up!!She wasn’t even wearing any pheros, and she certainly isn’t hotter than me:/ Just some old guy tried to talk to us both, and then we saw someone we knew, not an alpha male, who was with another nice, but not an alpha and not my type. We chatted to them, but I didn’t count that as a hit, 'cos nothing out of the ordinary except for chatting to some friends for a bit.
Then, at the club again- nothing unusual, drunk guys dancing around, noone seeme to smell anything coming from my hair or skin:/// I didn’t overdose, I was made up, dressed nicely and confident as usual. If I were wearing IS/A, I could start thinking the guys were intimidated by the vibes. But IS/B was supposed to give me softer kittenish sexiness, and I was acting congruently, smiling and having open body language. What do you think happened?
hhhmmmmm, alot of guys try and pick up your friend? and you have the IS/B on??? maybe they’re intimidated by sweet, soft and girlie IS/B. Try IS/A. More and more young hot guys it seems are into the stronger alpha/jolie type and less into kittenish girlies. I disappear to guys when I wear IS/B too (or at least I think I do, becuase I do not recieve any attention).
The only other explanation I can think of is many guys stupidly believe that if they hit on the hot girls buddy, than somehow, hot girl has this fighting, warrior- competitor side that will make us want them too??? I know…my poor confused little brother was trying to explain this one to me the other day, I had to set him straight.
You know, I really couldn’t say, but I figure I could throw some ideas out there… you know, just to get the mental gears turning.
Did you start with a “clean slate”? Not to be rude… but did you shower beforehand? Perhaps your natural pheromones don’t mesh well with IS/b?
Maybe the guys in the bar/club were just the sort to be attracted to TAL-types. Who knows?
Perhaps it was just an off day. God knows I get my fair share of dud outings. Lol.
Maybe people registered the pheromones as coming off of your friend? I read a post once about how a guy wore a great combo and went with his uncle to the hospital, and his uncle was flirting with a young nurse and making her blush and giggle. The uncle was over 70 at the time, and the guy was saying (good-naturedly) that his uncle stole his pheros.
Maybe your pheros were just “lost in the crowd”… there’s a lot of sweaty bodies in those sorts of places…
And maybe you’re just not an IS/b type! Hell, I don’t know.
Hope you figure out how it works for you Sorry I couldn’t be more helpful.
imo, I think is/a makes guys intimidated, but they do fancy you, and admire you. I’ve had stares with this one, but if you over-do it, you will intimidate guys cause you seem so “overwelming” or “too strong” Maybe you’re more of a tal girl, ya never know if you don’t try
However, I’m sorry to hear that is/b isn’t workin so much for you. But still, keep trying cause it never hurts. I doubt guys are intimidated by a majority of sweet/soft and girlie ladies (unless they act really girlie and all dumb lol)
I so agree with you! My guy friend told me about that one day!
I think that’s a PUA tactic. It’s supposed to make the hotter girl, who is probably used to more attention, think something like, “why are they hitting on the homely one? Humph! I’m much more attractive than her!” and make the hot girl try to pull the guy’s attention to fix her bruised ego. I guess it’s one of those “that might be stupid enough to work” ideas
Oh my Gosh, are you guys serious about that??? I can’t believe I’ve never ever thought or heard of that!!!That’s sooooo dumb, but sooo effective- I DID get jealous and into a competitive mode, but didn’t act on it. But makes sense: I wouldn’t hit on the hottest guy of a group, I’d try to attract his attention via his friends, if I were a guy
Do you all think the dosage was right?
I’m about to order Instant Honesty- and now wondering whether I should order at least 2x?? Since the other 2 products didn’t work first time..Because when this guy I set my eyes on cmes back from his holiday I need my pheros to be effective…Or does normal strength work fine?
THank you all sooooo much or your thoughts and suggestions!
Started a new thread about mx235, if you could give me your opinions there too, that’d would be fantastic!!
Yeah, I know. I think its just a technique to get really insecure woman, Ive seen guys try this with me, and Im like whatever, if you like me, SHOW it, THEN Im interested (if he’s worth my time). If someone shows interest with my girlfriend, then in my book he is interested in her, case closed.
I think if more guys wore pheros, maybe would have the confidence to approach the woman they really like (you!) or maybe not.
In any case, nols might help to diffuse potential insecurities, I would go with beta or alpha nol, maybe openness + honesty (basic strength-inviting not overwhelming).
Ordered Instant Honesty regular, thanks for your advice! It is a lot more encouraging knowing that some guys might use these techniques, and it’s not that the pheros aren’t working. They are, yay! I also observed those guys chatting to some kittenish, far from sexy girls, maybe their friends. So those hot guys we definitely not up for a tal vibe…Will keep reporting next time I am out this week.
Hey, Im going out at the weekend, and I want to maximise the chances of my IS/B working. Apart from the obvious- taking a shower, should I apply it at the club to avoid quick evaporation on the way or are pheromones quite resilient to 5-10 minutes of being outside? Since I am not likely to hold my wrists close to anyone’s faces, is their maybe more point applying IS/B to hair and neck? And should I keep to the 3 spray dosage, like the first time, or move up this time? Any other advice would be great, thanks!
You know I didn’t think of that angle but its really quite possible. Alot of men are into the PUA scene now especially since they aired the mystery show on VH1 or was it MTV lol Its one of the first things they are taught. Hit on the friend and make the other one work for it. Yes I know its stupid lol and oddly enough when out with friends we can pick out the Mystery wanna be’s. We actually make a game out of it LOL
I never really liked the wrists for application at least for me. I do apply some there but its just a little booster for my main application I think hair and neck or cleavage area is great. Yes I do suggest you up the dosage a little. Go with 4 sprays this time. When I go out I like to spray right before I get to my destination. I will pick up my girlfriends and when we get to the parking lot say “OK girls lets mone up” LOL Purses fly open and all you see are little bottles flying all over the place. The effects will last 4 to 6 hours with the best hits in the first 2 hours so its up to you when to apply.
You may want to read the Body Language guide in my signature below before you go just to brush up on that to. Once you get good at reading body language its opens up a whole new understanding of people to you and you can interact more effectively with them.
They generally have “methods” that are easy to spot if you’ve got an eye for it. Half of it is psychological manipulation and the other half is presentation, I would say.
Yes, I have noticed this as well. More guys are trying out their “moves” in such an obvious way. It gives PUAs (serious ones, as I see it, those who seek to improve themselves as a whole, not just for a lay) a bad name as guys trying to trick girls to pick them up.
One of the worst experiences was with a guy wanting to pick me up in the subway. He started talking to me randomly, so I blanked him out because I was with a girlfriend and not interested in making conversation with a random guy in the subway.
After we got off, he followed me and started calling after me, saying things like “You should feel lucky someone wants to fuck you”, etc. I was very but continued to ignore him til we’d lost him.
Thanks, Tisha, for your advice! and yeah, you’re hilarious! Got my Instant Honesty today (after super fast 2 day delivery!!), and another goodie- mx274!!!yay! Which one (s) should I wear to a club tomorrow? Will be on the lookout for the PUA tactics 9such a funny abbreviation!).
Thanks gals for the explanation, which is pretty obvious.
Takhisis, OMG! sounds more like a psycho than a PUA.
I was at a party about a month ago and this guy was talking to me, and seemd into me (a real aphrodisiac), I was starting to be interested and then he walks away! started talking to someone else, sat down and ignored me.
This was a very obvious tactic he was using as I observed he did the same thing to the next girl, she ran over and started throwing herself on him!
I avoided him as I was in for the realization he was playing some strange game- “Chutes and Ladders” style obvious, anyways, this other poor chic (not so hot either) must have really been kind of dumb not too have realized this.
With all these games and rules happening its a wonder people even date or hookup anymore other than on the internet.
I can’t believe I’ve never ever thought or heard of that!!!That’s sooooo dumb, but sooo effective- I DID get jealous and into a competitive mode, but didn’t act on it. But makes sense: I wouldn’t hit on the hottest guy of a group, I’d try to attract his attention via his friends, if I were a guy 
but continued to ignore him til we’d lost him.