This was right around the first time I was first using so I wanted to try and prove a point.
I had my friend get a drink and just stand there. Nope nothing happened.
Now that girl moved away so I had to try it on someone else, now this places was packed so my other friend, who wears as well, stands behind this one girl, and SAME EXACT EFFECT!
There was no way this was all coincidence.
Plus it wasn’t her looking back and smiling at me that really made a difference, it was her turning around. I understand that you can sense someone there, but the music was so loud you can barely talk, the place was packed, and everyone was in closer proximity.
I’ve gotten plenty of looks and smiles before. Heck even at times women outright told me I look cute out of no where. But this was definitely a mone hit. The look on the girl’s face when she turned and looked at my friends face was priceless, classic DIHL.
I don’t know how I managed to miss that thread. Now, some persons it takes them a while to get hits with pheromones and it may seem that is something wrong with the products and most times they are just missing a key ingredient or they are experiencing results but just not realizing it.
With pheromone usage it could be a number of things and that is why just like cooking you have to ensure you keep a journal or a book or mentally record everything you did, saw and experienced to factor out what went wrong.
I know and will very much admit that pheromones is not for everyone but it hurts me when I see that someone is trying and getting nowhere. I got frustrated with one or two products from the start myself.
Even the Instant shine you mentioned I am shocked because most persons get results from this products. I know you probably read all the stickys in this section and P asked some interesting questions and tried his best to assist.
I will even do the same for you ask questions and probably even frustrate you more so I have decided to come in this thread and beg you to go to the experts.
Steve although a guy has helped me considerably and knows how to get you enjoying these products and getting the desired hits. If not and I am guessing he will you can get an alternative right then and there from him.
When I had difficulties from the start or secretly did not want to admit some products were not working because I felt I was doing something wrong I would read Tisha’s posts and see the advice she gave to others on that particular product. Send her a PM.
It’s time to ask the big guns for help. I hope to see you posting happy, amazing results soon.
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Thank you so much for replying guys, I really DO appreciate it…
I’m trying, trust me I am, I read ALL the recommendations and suggestions, and noticing and making notes of things is what I do for a living lol so, trust me I pay attention…
No results yet though, although I must admit I like IS/b… I also think that Neroli is just NOT for me, so I will definitely switch it up…
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No Mustang, I’m your girl-next-door-type…
You know what would be funny… if some of us who live in NY ran into each other at the same bar/club/lounge and w/out knowing what each other looked like just hung out to see if we picked up on each others’ pheromones LOL or to prove that it made no difference - and then we can discuss on the forum what happened and see if people from here even picked each other out from the crowd or if they weren’t able to tell at all…
I went through much the same thing as you when I first started. Often hits are so subtle that they are difficult to recognize, easy to miss. I finally started taking notes throughout my day, and then typing it up later on. While typing them up, little things would jump out at me that I would not have realized were hits at the time. Many times, during this process, I would have “wow” moments, seeing things in a more objective perspective this way.
Try not using any pheros for a week, and take notes on that. Keep a journal. This is why there are journal sections (one of which this thread happens to be in) where people can keep personal accounts of their phero experiences. You may have noticed that the journal sections are viewable only to registered members. This helps to keep them a little more private, so not just anyone can come along and read them while browsing and surfing the web.
When you have regular reports that you want feedback for, it is better to put them in the regular section where more people will see them and be more likely to share their thoughts.
Be patient, keep trying, it’ll come. there is definitely a learning curve with this stuff, but once you “get it”, you’ll know.
Instant Shine, for me, needs a higher dose. I use 1 to 3 sprays of 4x. For that product, the reason I wasn’t getting effects was because I wasn’t using enough. Have you tried Instant Openness or Instant Honesty? Those are fun to learn with, because when they’re working, it’s so obvious. With IO, people will suddenly start chatting up a storm, saying random stuff. People who don’t normally talk much will talk. With IH, people will unexpectedly tell you really personal things, sometimes things that are even a little too personal, lol.