Hi Steve
The instant range is probably a good option for you starting out: Instant Shine, for the fun vibe and Instant Openness and Instant Honesty to assist with the communication side.
I suggest you have a good read of The Mens Guide, then return with any questions that you may have.
Be sure to return and let us know your results once you start using pheromones too!
The sweet hostess Tisha should provide you with a gift certificate soon 