I’m a new guy here on Pherotalk. Heck, I may be the only new guy or user whose 13. I found this site while browsing pheromones. It was actually this ad on (Cracked.Com) that was lingering promising to improve your love and social life. Ever since the link to this site showed up, I have dedicated my life ever since in the abandonment of cologne in favor oh pheromones.
I consider myself to be a terrible guy when it comes to social and dating situations. Always, I’ve always relied on my friends for dating tips. I’ve neither had the courage nor the will or lines to approach the girls I like. My high school sister has called me a loser and I’ve always had to do shy away from the crowds of my middle school.
I’m an Asian kid by the way but in no way am I a nerd or a geek to support the stereotype even though I wear glasses. I wear the typical clothes normal teens wear at the school. I’m here to improve my life in not only in school, but my future.
In general, I have the uttermost confidence that this site can help me with my now-terrible love and social life. It sucks. I’m starting early on so I can prepare for the rigors in high school. I’m hopeful that I don’t face discrimination based on my age.
I dont have much TRUE friends at school. A circle of friends, but not exactly true friends. I’m always feeling like a loner, never fitting in. I have trouble saying something catchy. Its hard to make something up thats funny.
I do apologize if my writing is too long or short. I’m typing this at like 10 PM Pacific Time. I gotta sleep. Finish that essay tomorow…
The social products, Ih and io, are good for guys your age. They will make conversations flow more easily, and people will see you as easy to talk to and a good listener. This can help build relationships.
I agree with GWTW on getting Instant Openness and Instant Honesty for the social products . Also Instant Shine for a boost in cinfidence and it will make you feel good and thte prople around you.
For your young age, you can try the social pheromones.
IO can make people want to talk to you, hence you can make more friends. You will also become better socially.
IH is to make them talk longer and deeper with you. They will feel they know you since long ago.
Yeah, at your age just use the socials. Instant Shine is great.
Also, follow your own moral code and values, and just don’t care what other people think of you. (It’ll take some practice). While there is a lot of pressure to conform, especially in high school, don’t conform to try to be popular. Won’t work. But not giving a s**t will, oddly, make you more popular. Especially if you are friendly and accepting of others. Don’t worry about stereotypes of being a “geek” or whatever. (In fact, deliberately breaking the stereotype in some way can have the effect of making girls see you as a mystery to be solved, which is always good.)
Hmm, Don’t worry about being witty.
We all hit those moments when we think of something that would have been so much cooler if we’d said it in x or y situation.Just be yourself first and foremost.
A select group of close friends is better than a wide group of aquaintances at least when you have a bad day that way the person backing you is really there you know?
Thats why I say be yourself and don’t worry so much about being witty. A girl should be like your friends you’re closest to but just a bit cooler.You sound like you’re doing pretty good for yourself though.
Your thoughts are pretty clear and mature for a guy your age (compared to when I was a teen myself and the guys I knew). That much alone gives you an edge on the other guys at your school.Doesn’t sound like you have too much to be insecure about.
Maybe Instant shine or the socials would work out well for you.
Try each pheromone solo to start so you can familiarize yourself with its effects on you and those around you and then maybe instant openness and honesty would be good in combo. Come talk to me isn’t quite as buffered so I wouldn’t reccomend it just yet.
Instant honesty is going to be better for bonding ie girlfriend vibe and instant openness is going to be better for general socialization.
Instant shine might perk you up a bit and in general gives you a bit of a status lift in terms of how people react to you.
Start out with the original 1x strength of whatever you decide to get.
You might not need anything more than that and with pheros too much of a good thing can really be simply just too much.
Anyway. I hope this helps you out some in terms of getting started. No,pheros aren’t reccomended for your age group really but if you’re going to get them from somewhere this is more likely to be your safest option.
Don’t ever be afraid to ask questions even if it seems silly.
