Hi Anthony, welcome to the forum! And thanks for the info!
Instant Gentleman is a great product that will make you seem more mature and more capable. You will be perceived as a guy who a girl can turn to when the going gets rough, a guy who can be trusted to take care of things, a guy who can handle whatever comes your way.
Ammo is another phero mix you should definitely try, because it will give both your confidence and sex appeal a boost, and can be worn comfortably in any environment.
To help keep those conversations flowing, check out Instant Honesty. Instant Honesty will add depth and intimacy to conversations, causing others to feel more comfotable with you and trust you more. With Instant Honesty, you will find that people will tend to confide in you and tell you more personal things about themselves.
Instant Shine, which you mentioned, is great for lifting people’s spirits and getting everyone, including yourself, into a better mood. I like to use a spray or two when I feel a little glum, it really does help.
Anyway, now you have even more choices than you started out with. Its tough, because they are all great products. Maybe to begin with, get either Ammo or Instant Gentleman, and one social, either Instant Shine or Instant Honesty. I personally think you should go with the Instant Honesty, because it really helps with emotional bonding, in many types of situations and not just with girls.
And last, but definitely not least, you wanted to know about finding your sweet spot. I am impressed, you have really been doing your homework! Anyway, this post should help: How To Find Your Sweet Spot (How to find your sweet spot...) 