I am a noob to all this so please bear with me. I’m a 21 yr. old male in San Antonio, TX. Earlier this semister I started talking to girl in my dance class, and have taken a liking to her. I was even able to get her to go to a formal concert with me and five friends she had never met. Because it was a group, I don’t consider it a date, at least not technically. Iwas thinking because it is a dance class having her so close to me would be a perfect time to try some pheromones. If you guys or girls have any ideas on anything that would help me out without comming off too strong to the other dancers in the class, I’m all ears.
Heya, San Antonio, welcome to the Phero-Rodeo, you are an official Cadet.
I think the dance class is a perfect opportunity for you to SHINE, as in Instant Shine. Then you might want to try some Instant Honesty or Instant Openness, or even TUTH.
But there’s no rush. Look around, pull up a chair, the beer is in the fridge. Smart but very kind and helpful people will be glad to help you sort through the gusher of information here. Make a few friends, and be sure to let us know how things go with your dancer!
Thanks for the speedy response MarkL. Instant shine sounds like the way to go, but is there any advise or tips I should know about? Also, I am not even sure if she has a boyfriend already. I was hoping someone may be able to help me find a way of finding out without just asking. The class is 2 hours long, but I only get about 20 min. tops to actually talk to her because of the way the class is set up.
She will most likely tell you that she has a boyfriend or not spontaneously. If it doesn’t arise, then you can ask “Would you and your boyfriend like to go on a double date sometime?”
This strongly implies social proof and qualifies that you can get a date, especially when you tell her you don’t have a steady girlfriend.
You can ask this way even if you have no intention of double dating at all if she does have a bf.
And if she says she doesn’t have a bf, you can then promptly reply, “That’s ALL right! How about a single date, then, just us two? Something simple and comfortable where we can talk – I want to know more about you.”
Thanks again for the advise MarkL. The class meets every sat. so there is still time to work out a way to find a way of gathering some info.
I have had almost a Charlie Brown reaction with women, but this girl is different. I am taking ballroom 2 this semester, and after a three week Christmas vacation, I asked her the first day of class.
I was sick, and I was asking her to go with me to see a band she had never heard of, at a place she had never been too, with a bunch of people she had never met. She pulled out her date book, saw she was was free, turned and said “I don’t have a thing to wear.”
Two days later, she tells me a vague discription of her new outfit, so I quickly went out and bought a corsage to match. I was stunned by her beauty, and she was equally floored by the gift. She absolutely loved seeing Pink Martini, and was thrilled when the band stayed for autographs. That was truely a night to be remembered.
In my experience most girls usually reveal it pretty soon if they have a boyfriend or not when they find themselves getting close to anyone else. Instant Honesty might make the process faster. It will also help to increase rapport between you two. All good things! Welcome!
Thank you all for all your advise and encouraging spirit. More details to come sat. (to all those that care) so any more tips I can use to not get traped as the “good friend”, will be very much appreciated and certainly taken to heart. I wish you all well and hope to get more support.
There is a main -none like effect without the disadvantages. Search the forum, you’ll find lots of threads.
However it seems it has a concentrating effect too, even for me it’s helping me ‘copy’ and ‘understand’ the instructor’s moves/footwork, which helps…
Well good news, I got a second date with her sun. night. The place has a block of four hours of dancing to a live band with only a ten dollar cover. It also has tables off to the side so we can talk if we don’t like the song. She also said she has never been to a spurs game, so I checked out the march schedule which has seven home games. things are looking good and I can’t wait to see what some added pheromones will do.
Ohhh myyy god, ledbea, being in dance class is a PERFECT place to test out pheromones.
Phoenix can tell you all about it! Check out posts from SwingerMD too. He hasn’t been around in a while, but his main pheromone testing ground is dance classes and at dance clubs. There is some crazy stuff to observe!
Anyhoo… I want to welcome you to our forum And I hope to hear from you soon!! Your gift cert has been sent.
