I haven’t used mones before so am a little hesitant without more info.I want to be all that I can be in the best way
We were all there once, but this site is just packed with info. The best thing you can do is, read, read, read! The stickies at the top of each section (the men’s section too) are packed full of helpful info, and also people’s journals give day-to-day insight on real experiences, both good and bad, from beginner to experienced user.
Just dig in, it’s super fun and super interesting! 
Hi Joanne - did you introduce yourself to the forum in the Introductions section? If you haven’t, do that. That will be your first line of information as the rest of the forum greets you! 
Lots of help available; start with these:
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/read-me-first-helpful-topics-on-how-to-get-around/3106
An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects
How to find your sweet spot...
Start with the GC qualifier, post an intro and read the others. The very best start to your new interest.