Welcome smellme!
The gents above have provided some excellent suggestions. I would just add that you do your own study of The Mens Guideand let us know if you have any further questions.
Good luck and do return and let us know about your results 
Welcome smellme!
The gents above have provided some excellent suggestions. I would just add that you do your own study of The Mens Guideand let us know if you have any further questions.
Good luck and do return and let us know about your results