As a birthday gift to me, the order is in. Turn up the heat 2x per Mark in Dallas cause I’m an old guy LOL. Instant shine, ammo, Instant female magic, and for thrills and spills Instant sexiness for the little lady.
Ok here’s the deal. I want to keep my phero use a secret from the “little lady” aka my wife of many years. Especially if they do what I hope they will do in tipping the scales a little more my way. Remember I’m 54 years old and have been married for 33 years.
I want ideas as to how I can get it on here and\or get here to use it, etc, etc. I need to be covert, because I love her to death, but if I told her what it is and does, she’d take it, put it on the shelf and never use it. She loves her neck and shoulders massaged, so besides all your ideas, is there a way to effectively use it in almond base massage oil? May I need to cover the scent or not? Help me please. You guys are awesome.
Hey outlander!
You got yourself a very nice selection there for your birthday . The ladies should be able to come up with a better suggestion how to mix that Instant Sexiness with a perfume in a nice looking perfume dispenser bottle which you can give to your dear wife as a present.
Personally I tried one spray of Turn Up The Heat in my hands and added some virgin coconut oil in my palms which I normally massage my wife with. It may have been too little to evoke any other feelings, even though she remarked, this massage oil smells tropical, she loved the resulting smell.
This is what Kitten wrote on the Mens’ thread. Thanks Kitten - Outlander
Hmmm. Interesting problem. Honesty is the best policy, of course. You’d probably be surprised at how she’d get into it if you presented the pheromone idea the right way. She may miss some of the extra attention she received before she got married. Not that she’s not just as amazing and gorgeous now, but you know what I mean, I hope!
If you’re wearing pheromones and she knows it, she is going to want to keep up with you. Say you two go to Starbucks together and she sees you getting attention from other women–she’s going to want a secret weapon of her own! The added confidence she’ll get with Instant Sexiness A can only benefit both of you. You’d be the pheromone power duo! Just send her here and we ladies would be glad to talk to her about it.
If that plan is truly a no go: I think your best bet would be to sneak it into the perfume she already wears. Massage oil gets washed off right after. And if you give her an unlabeled perfume in an atomizer, she is bound to ask questions. If you add pheromones to her perfume bit by bit, she may not notice the change. Then you could add some positive reinforcement by going nuts and nuzzling and complimenting the heck out of it each time she wears it. Still, why create a secret in your marriage if you don’t have to? Send her our way.
Kitten - I know what you’re saying about honesty. I’m not thinking about doing this to be dishonest, it’s just that my wife can have bouts of (for lack of a better word) stubborness.
For example even though she knows that weight training is important, she prefers cardio because I suggested weight training. Later on she’ll do it as her own idea, but not right after I suggest it or with me. She had a very successful career in banking, but had to be pushed into every promotion she received. Am I making sense here? Sometimes she just doen’t know whats good for her, LOL.
I think I could give her a new perfume, but not sure if I should say it has pheros (yet). Maybe I could just rebottle or have the togo relabeled.
Kitten’s idea of sneaking the Instant Sexiness bit by bit into her perfume is a little trickier than it seems because of dilution. If you just add a little bit of the pheromones into a full bottle of cologne the pheromones will be way too diluted. What you are really trying to do with premixing pheromones with cologne is adding just enough cologne to cover the pheromones. Check on some posts by Gegogi - he carries small Sephora atomizers with his cologne/pheromone mixes and discusses the ratios he uses.
Thanks Boss and Kitten - I had a better response, but I lost it or it went to admin. I’ll wait to see if it shows up. I like the aromatherpy idea. She does like that.
Instant sexiness will not be as effective if mixed in a regular perfume.
The products are balanced already and have a cover scent of neroli, to dilute them in this way would just make them weak.
Well you wearing them will be a great start at spicing things up. Turn Up The Heat, Instant Female Magic, shine and ammo will effect her when you are wearing them. She will notice those effects even if she is not consious of it. You best bet is to tell her the truth or just keep it to yourself for now.
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You can buy a pretty glass atomizor with the bulb on the end and say you had a perfume made special just for her. She will probably wear it a few times at least just to try it and so you dont feel bad then when the self effects kick in she may really love it.
You can try the oust fan method which is like a air freshener thing you plug in that sprites it into the air once in a while. Just use it in your bedroom room.
You can try wearing it yourself when your going to be together. The cops are low enough in Instant sexiness as to not give you the player vibe. This hasnt been tried as far as I know with mens using womens products but some of the women will use a small amount of Androstenone products to intensify sex and that works so its worth a try.
Best bet is just tell her though and ask her to wear them for you for a week and if she dosnt like them she can stop. I think the self effects will grab her. You dont have to tell her they are pheromones. Just say they are aroma therapy products. The lable peels off. Tell her they are to make her feel sexy confident strong and throw in youthful, that one will get her to try it even though its not what Instant sexiness does.
I agree on this one. You can find nice atomizers anywhere. And, neroli is a scent often used in aromatherapy, so she may actually buy that explanation. She will probably be hooked after a week or so of using it.
Thanks Tisha and Dolly. I think the aroma therapy thing will work. That’s pretty honest, right? LOL When my order arrives I will choose a plan and report back.
Why would you want your wife to be more attractive, sexually, to other heterosexual men? I mean, you already like her pretty much, right? If you just want to get her in the sack more, or liven things up, I don’t get why you would want her to wear pheromones without knowing it - In that case, she’ll possibly be wearing attractive pheromones when you are not around, right? Why not put the pheromones on yourself, or on household objects that will not be going to the supermarket, etc.?
When I first became interested in pheromones I leveled with Wolf. He didn’t object, but wasn’t particularly interested…until he saw the results I was getting!
So one night when we were alone, in the interest of science… lol, I spritzed him with 2 sprays AMMO1.0/2X and myself with 2 sprays MX136…well, lets just say we had more fun than two ‘old’ people should … !
Now when we go out, he says, “so babe, what are you gonna spray me with tonight?”. He gets it…fun for both of us…and fun on our own, too.
I believe in full disclosure…especially in long term relationships. It’s different when you’re dating and gaming … you’re workin’ it!
When you’ve been married for a long time ya just gotta work it a different way.
I know that if I found out Wolf was ‘dosing’ me…I’d be pretty pissed off…and vice versa…for sure.
I’m not standing in judgement, my friend, you know what you’re up against…I’m just telling you what I did…take it for what it’s worth.
Maybe hit yourself up with some Instant Shine, Instant Female Magic and perhaps a just a liitle Honesty, of the Instant variety, before you approach the subject?
However you decide to handle it, you know we’re in your corner…upper right hand!
Turn up the heat 2x per Mark in Dallas cause I’m an old guy LOL. Instant shine, ammo, Instant female magic, and for thrills and spills Instant sexiness for the little lady. 
I need to be covert, because I love her to death, but if I told her what it is and does, she’d take it, put it on the shelf and never use it. She loves her neck and shoulders massaged, so besides all your ideas, is there a way to effectively use it in almond base massage oil? May I need to cover the scent or not? Help me please. 
You guys are awesome.
