Hello. I am new here. I am a 31 year old female (single) that happens to be extremely shy. I have always lived in the southeastern region of the country and described by most people as unique, traditional, a sweet person or really quiet.
I am excited about learning about pheromones and all of the neat products discussed here. I read several posts and browsed the smartmones website for a couple of weeks before creating my profile. I am hopeful that I will be able to find some combinations that will help me socially.
I would love to venture out more socially–be brave enought to take a few (normal/legal risk–be viewed as confident and not timid–and be able to walk in a room without creating negativity. Hence, my reason for researching these products. I want to find something that will help me to become more open and talkative when I am in big groups of people. One on one (dates, interviews, supervisors), I am already comfortable and effective. [Most of close friends don’t even believe that I am shy – because as you can tell by this post…I have a lot to say.]
At parties, restaurants, school functions, business events, most strangers would complain that I am too quiet and standoffish. It would be great if I could find the extra push that I need to join my coworkers at the lunch table or mingle more at work parties. I have the look, skills, knowledge–but not the confidence—accepting compliments with grace. My situation is – I think I am attractive and pleasant, but I feel uncomfortable because I don’t know what other people think about me…I don’t speak or make eye contact which makes me appear snobbish…so then people draw away from me…making me avoid eye contact more and then I start to feel self conscious —it happens everytime I am in a big group of new people. Once people get to know me though, they like me and realize that I am really unpretentious and fun.
I am not a candidate for prescription medication or therapy. I don’t drink alcohol or do any drugs. I am hopeful that I can find an effective product (with minimal side effects) to help ease my anxiety. This shyness has haunted me tooo long. Anyway, I am looking forward to reading the posts and learning all about the products.
Thanks for being patient and reading this. You are awesome
Great first post with lots of information, ladyangel! Only problem is that you should have started it as a new thread instead of a post here. No problem though. They might be able to change it, or you can do it yourself. I think you’ve basically covered everything you need to get the $15 gift certificate. What products have you considered already? Instant Shine has great self-effects for some, and knowing that you’re wearing pheromones gives some people a psychological confidence boost.
Good goddess, how ever did I miss your intro. I must be getting old or something cause its not like me to miss them.
I suggest you look into the socials like IO and IH. This will make others approach more and make it a little easier and more comfortable for you to approach.
Ishine is great, its charismatic upbeat warm and has been said to boost the confidence.
Instant sexiness A, confident sexy strong female vibe. Its not overly sexual. I like this one alot cause it really boosts your confidence levels.
If you have any questions just ask, we are excited to have you here and I hope to talk to you some more in the forum.
I used everyone’s posts to make a decision on what to buy. I have used each of the three products that I ordered. Off and on for about three weeks. Testing to see if it is really the product or my imagination…I did not use the free gift of spaceland…not sure about what it is suppose to do to me…LOL
Instant Shine does what it says. It puts me in a better mood, and puts the people around me in a better mood. People were nice to me and I actually enjoyed talking, laughing with, and interacting complete strangers. Nothing dramatic or overwhelming, when used in moderation (one spray of 2x to my neck) it helps me to work with the personality I naturally have (passive, shy type, observer) while being functional/approachable in front of large groups of people. I admit, somedays, I really did feel like a superstar (one spray of 2x to my neck and walk through a mist sprayed above my head).
Instant Sexiness was within my realm. I used it on the weekend first. It did not help my friendship with my exboyfriend at all…but it did peak the interest of other males. I have only used it two or three times --once with instant shine and once with instant openness. I will have to experiment with it more. Both instances, the males were complimentative yet very respectable.
I like instant openness…because it seems to help me open up to people a lot more…still within my natural personality --because I need my personal space. I am more talkative and relaxed (one spray 2x to my wrist or neck). I like that a lot. I think this will be on my regular shopping list. I can see me experimenting with more sprays for a deeper effect.
Overall, all three products helped relieve some of my shyness. This is great news for me. I feel like a have an opportunity to do so much more with the help of these products. I don’t know who to thank, but thank you…
Nice to have a female member on board so welcome I see that you have done some reading here & decided to join, that’s good. Great intro btw
Congrats on making an order here plus good report on testing the pheros here You have seen how the pheros here work so i can understand how you feel there & it is good that the pheros was a help to you on your shyness there Lady Tisha AKA Tisha23 has given you some good advice there, do make a reference to it
I wish you all the best in your next tests with the pheros here & see you
