I am a 20 year old male currently working as a line cook at a local bar.
i have been cooking for over 4 years and have worked in a few kitchens.
there has never been a shortage of young single co workers around me, but
as i have observed over the years, coworkers sleeping together and swapping partners, i found myself on the outside of that circle,but have remained in the clickcrowd. i have always been a open person and do enjoy chatting with young woman and do quite well on 1 of 20.
im here to soak up knowledge on the true reason why my percentage of success is so low, when lesser confident and overall looking men at my work are par or greater at hook ups. i have been single for 4 years and without for almost 2 years. i have never been approached by a female i always approach and all starts well but never gets into second gear, i am well groomed of tanned complexion, athletic build and good jaw line, they say.
but im not sure if it is my bodies chemistry or what but PheroTalk and friends i need your help, i have tried Pherozone, EdgeUp the 2 top rated with no effect, the problem is there is no tester so a $100 purchase now sits on my dresser almost mocking me. i have done my research and it has lead me here. i have taken advice from male coworkers who rotate girls every weekend and they say it is confidence, and i take it was a grain because i dont want to be ignorant, or maybe that’s the trick, whatever it is i hope this strong community can assist me in breaking my 2 year dry period, and thank you to all who read, any replies will be greatly apprechiated
Whoa, isn’t it 5:42 AM over there in Toronto? Why are you still up? Haha. Is it because of the excitement over pheromones?
I think that you will benefit from pheromones, but ultimately, you would have to work on your game as well. The problem with using pheromones is that you will have to be congruent with the signature or vibe that you give off, or else your target will associate the effects of the pheromones with one of your co workers instead. So essentially, they are leaching off your signature. So while pheromones can help, it is really important to consider this aspect. It is nothing like the effects of pheromones as portrayed in the media, such as in the movie Ocean’s 13. So you will need to address the issues that you have first, identify it and work towards improving it. Confidence does not equal ignorance at all. There is a big difference here.
You can try pheromones, but don’t put 100% of the hope and reliance on the pheromones. They only enhance what is present already. My recommendation would be to try the starter pack here. It has all the pheromones needed to make a great combination. This should cover everything that you need.
It is confidence! And 1 of 20 isn’t a bad rate either. I mean, if you approach 20 girls during a night and get that much closer to one of them… some guys feel that’s a failure so they don’t do anything. They approach zero girls and get closer to all of them
Having said that, there are of course pheromones that can help you improve that ratio, and to improve the happenings, take them further in a smoother way. My suggestion is, read all the sticky threads here in the Introductions subforum as well as in Men’s and Women’s sections. All the basic knowledge is there, like what products for what situation, how much to use and when, where to apply, what results to expect and how to recognize whether there are any etc.
Personally, my advice is to choose products that somehow showcase the best side of your personality, and use them in a way that will highlight who you are and not work against it.
You may look into products such as Instant Gentleman, Ammo, Instant Shine, Instant Openness and some more, have a look around.
Wow,that is shocking. I can’t believe that happens where you work
Now, the guys already gave you some great recommendations to go in further as to why they suggested this please read the thread in my signature introducing newbies to pheromones by Steve
