Whoa, this is so sooo cool. I knew I was in for a treat when I read your thread title. 
Pity not as many people have responded.
I really agree with Carrie’s assessment. You are just about the ONLY PERSON ON EARTH to whom I would recommend a TUTH 7.5 mcg/spray dosage. Give me a call, because I don’t think it is available in the store anymore. Too many guys picked it up because its description said “Crazy people only”… what they *didn’*t understand was that we meant you had to be bona-fide NUTS to use it. Not like, “Oh yeah, I’m totally crazy, dude!” It’s since been taken down, but I can make sure you can get one.
That would emit an extremely strong, almost fearfully repulsive, sexually aggressive signal. It is, really, the exact opposite of comfort.
You might also want to try Instant Jerk. That’s another androstenone-based product. It has a hint of sex (copulins) in it, and also some other deeper communication pheromones in it, so I would think if you intentionally overdosed on it, the audience (your wife) would feel intensely in tune and hyper aware of her internal feelings.
When you’ve discovered the boundaries of those, feel free to give me a call about trying out some other experimental molecules. TAF and P79 come to mind. You might also want to do a search in the forum for “putatives” from forum member Tacitus and see if there’s anything in his posts that strike your curiosity.
I applaud you guys’ newfound adventurousness, and hope we have something that can suit your needs. 
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