I’m new to the forum and to Pheromones. I’m excited to start reading all the information on the site…it’s a bit overwhelming I must admit. I’m a 28yr old female living in the midwest.
My initial interest in Pheromones began when I attended a friend’s bachelorette party which included a dirty-girls party. The party host tried all kinds of sex products on us and one happened to be some sort of pheromone roll-on that her company sold( something like “Seduction” by party gals…not too sure). All of us ladies then headed out for a night out on the town. Through the night I noticed that I had lots of guys chatting me up and were quite attentive towards me. Although I’m normally an outgoing person, I never really garner male attention (especially with my more attractive lady friends around). At the end of the night I thought that maybe, just maybe, the Pheromone roll-on had something to do with it. I hit the internet to see if Pheromones were for real, or just hocus-pocus. That’s when I stumbled across this forum.
I’m still new and discovering all the different types of mones and what kinds of reactions one can expect from them. I am currently in a long-term relationship and would like to spice it up a bit…make date nights feel like they did in the beginning of our relationship. It seems the more that I read on here, the more things that go on my wish-list.
Pheromones are in fact very real and the ones sold here at AD are legit and not a scam in any way. They actually contain and do what they say they do. You garnering attention that night may very well have been from the mones if in fact it was a reputable product that actually had good concentrations of mones in it.
It would help if you described what areas you wanted to spice up, whether it be intimate times, deeper bond and connection, social aspect, etc.
Heres a few examples that you should look at: Instant sexiness will increase your sex appeal and make your bf have that libido drive towards you
IH will deepen conversations and create trust
IO will help to open you and other people up and conversations flow much easier
TUTH to be worn by male will make you want him in a sexual aspect.
Instant shine is a mood uplifter which will make you and others around you happier and chattier.
Well please tell us as much as possible that way we can better assist you but im glad you stumbled across androtics and know the feeling of your wish list growing!
Thanks for responding so quickly Katalyst! I’m always happy to get advice from people who really know what’s going on!
As far as my relationship, I’ve been with my guy for about 8 months now. I want to make our intimate encounters more intense and…animalistic(is that a word?) When we first started dating he was really shy about initiating and would have a hard time turning off his brain. It seems that we’ve gotten into a pattern where I’m always the one initiating and sometimes I feel like his attraction to me either isn’t as intense as mine or maybe he is having a harder time trusting and just letting himself go. He hadn’t dated anyone for almost 4 yrs before me and seems to be particular about the women he wants to be with. I guess in the past I’m used to men not being able to control themselves. LOL. So I’m thinking that I would need to increase our bonding/trust followed by increasing his sexual attraction towards me . It seems like IH and Instant Sexiness would fit the bill.
Hey amor5357, I’ve had some experience from both sides of this picture. I’m thinking what you may want to try along with IH and TUTH is instant sexiness B. The A version is more dominant and will most likely increase your mans submissiveness. The B version will give you a softer sex appeal that can help put him at ease.
When you get into the more advanced products I recommend you try MX135 and TAF. This will give you alot of fun sexapeal and your man will have a hard time resisting.
Be sure to read up on some of these things in the womens fourm, lots of usefull information there!
Thanks so much for the additional information. How you describe your bf is how i would describe my gf since i only initiate and her brain doesnt shut down lol, and a few other girls. But no worries maybe your aggression and wild animalistic tendencies are just scaring him a bit and hes more the shy type that needs to feel comfortable with you and you need to communicate that you want to do certain things and show that you care and want to make things as comfortable and non judgemental as possible?
If you are looking to portray a strong dominant aggressive sexi vibe which you already have it might scare him away more so maybe you should look at instant sexiness B which will portray you as more sexually alluring in the feminine girly aspect which will then open things up once you get going.
I cant stress how important communication is though and IH seems great for that and will help him trust you and communicate with you as you express your concerns and wants and needs in those areas. Im also used to aggressive girls and it just takes a little time to readjust things a little bit and understand one another and find the spot that things work and everyone can feel comfortable and continue to open up and make him more confident.
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too .
I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too . Its cool!
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Yes, I think to start I will try to be as simplistic as possible just to get a hang of how to use the mones and how they work with my body chemistry. I do look forward to trying more advances mixes in time. Thanks for stressing getting the IS B as I have been told by friends that I come on strong and kind of domineering in general. And, of course, I will be camped out in the women’s forum for a few days at least.
Great insight. It helps to know I’m not the only one who has this issue. Sometimes it’s hard to understand the other perspective when I’m so caught up in my own needs and trying to impose what feels normal to me on another.
I’m seeing that you really have to take into consideration the way you interact with people w/out the mones in order to determine a good starting point. I’ve been told by friends that I am aggressive/domineering/intimidating. Plus my dad always tells me that I should have been a boy(even there are already 2 boys in my family) since I was such a tomboy. I think you’re right about me just getting adjusted to my guys natural demeanor and bringing about more trust and comfort between us. I for sure will be starting with IH and IS B.
Again, thanks for all the great advice everybody!!! I really appreciate it.
Youre welcome. Yeah i know where youre coming from getting caught up in yourself and not understanding why the other individual acts the way they do and isnt the same way. However it may come off as selfish eventhough you are not trying to be and i think that then can make things harder. You can only try to adjust small things and figure things out on your own.
You got it, you definitely need to focus on yourself as well, since mones are not relationship curators nor the end all be all. it lies in you to effect the things you want with the extra help from the mones. In the end you have to realize that you probably cant fully change yourself either to be someone who you are not since you will not be happy. If you find a medium where both your needs and happiness levels are met then that my friend is where equilibrium meets bliss.
Good luck with everything and definitely keep yourself buried in the womens section since theres a lot of people there that can offer up far more advice on the ladies side of things as well !
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