Hi Guys,
I’m looking to get rid of my 10ml bottle of A314 it’s way to alpha for me. I literally have only used 4 drops of the stuff. I’m willing to trade for a new 30ml bottle of Instant Gentleman or 2 NEW togo’s of MX297. (prefer MX297). I know that I will be taking a lost on what I paid for A314 but it’s better then me throwing it in the trash as I get no benefit out of it.
How much you want for it? You have paypal?
Too alpha? I bet you can benefit from it greatly if you use it as a tool to change some things. I wouldn’t get rid of it just yet.
Agreed, I would hold onto it. Consider mones as a tool for personal growth, A314 could very well turn into a project you “graduate” into. 3 to 6 months from now you may find that you’re in a place mentally where it’s exactly what you’re wanting. Then what? You buy another hundred dollar bottle to replace the one you traded for a 40 dollar bottle of some other product…taking about a 60 dollar hit for a product you actually do have use for.
I would not have suggested it for a first purchase but the fact is you have it. And while it’s not something you can work with now…it may be a powerful tool later.
In what ways is it feeling too alpha? one of the purposes of this private forum is for trading info on how to make this stuff work better. So tell us what the problem is and maybe we can give you some pointers.
You use 4 drops at once?
Or 4 drops total.
one at a time
I don’t want money I have tons of that. I just want an exchange. So I decided to give some people who may not have the money a break.
I feel way to Alpha as I’m naturally a smartass/alpha. With A314 I’m a royal asshole. My sales dropped to a 10th of what they were the days I wore A314. To me A314 gives me roid rage.
So it sounds like more self effects and thus a self control issue than anything else. For one, focus on self control (an alpha quality if every there was one) and be consciously aware of your own behavior. Self awareness and being self conscious are two different things. Second, try to bear in mind that for most users self effects disappear after a while of regular use.
How did you sales drop to 1/10 with only 4 drops? At MOST that’s 4 days of a drop a day, or one really bad day on 4 drops at once. At a drop a day for about two weeks you’ll notice the self effect fades and you become more relaxed with your signature.
However if you have an alpha personality type it will create a bit more of a respect vibe that smooths things out. Honestly when I read the phrase “smart ass” I’m inclined to think of more of an Instant Jerk kind of Alpha than an A314 type.
Did you use any buffers on those days? Instant Shine or Instant Openness? IH personally is great for A314 and sales. People will respect you and see you as somebody that knows their stuff, but will also feel like they can believe what you say which goes a long way to making them buy what you’re selling.
Yes that would be the case. I was often referred to as “The Jerk” before I had mones. A lot of ladies digged that though. Now with mones I’m the jerk who is a nice guy so I get laid a lot.
I know in my mind that I’m an asshole (War Veteran) but I control myself. A314 takes this control away from me. So I find that peoples stupidity makes me feel like jumping over the desk at them or punching guys who wear those skinny jeans. Minor stuff like this caused me to want to be violent when I used A314.
Thats EXACTLY what I was gonna type…Every Alpha has some jerk to them, but its more from being confident and able to back up what we say/think..
I see why you would want IG, but sounds like you could use more socials than anything else.
I respect most vets; so long as they did their job.
But, I’m just curious as to why you allow other peoples stupidity to bother you so much?
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Honestly when I read the phrase “smart ass” I’m inclined to think of more of an Instant Jerk kind of Alpha than an A314 type.
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Are you implying that IJ can also be alpha?
Instant Jerk has certain Alpha Qualities to it but in a different way than A314.
If you look at it from an evolutionary perspective you can imagine it this way.
Instant Jerk communicates a male that is young, physically strong and fit, in an ancient tribal society it would be the signal of a young strong hunter warrior possibly even the leader of a war party. He’s brave, confident and assertive but also quick to anger and tends to act before he thinks.
A314 is the older guy, the tribal leader, The Rone says he’s older which implies good genes in as much as in ancient societies people tended to die young, reaching an older status implies health, but also that you were strong enough or smart enough to survive many hunts and battles. So the genetic implication is there. But it also says he’s more experienced than the Jerk and thus more likely to be in control of his emotional responses. He’s likely forged a lot of alliances and has the support of other tribal males which is a stronger advantage for survival than physical prowess alone.
The None is there to say that he’s still a fit and virile man of mating age and probably still has a few hunts/battles left in him. The A314 man is not past his prime, he’s reached the age where he no longer has more balls than brains. So they both have Alpha Qualities but the A314 man, while still fit and strong has learned that social dominance matters more for survival than physical dominance.
If the Jerk and the A314 man are interested in the same female the Jerk may try to flex and show that he’s bigger and stronger…the A314 male will bark out an order and have most the males of the tribe drive the jerk out of the village.
I deal in sells of wholesale fashion stuff. So a lot of the guys tend to be gay. thats not really a problem though I served with a few gays. However these guys behave like women and cry all the time. They are sandbags. So I end up doing most of the work and pitching myself because they F it up if giving the chance.