ive yet to come along a girl who does not have a love letter or note hidden deep deep among her old stuff… its one that no one can find easy to throw away
and remember, jerks are onli charming at first and wen the charm wears off and u find out who they really are… well lets just say, the kind loving guy wins
Well remember Baller21 is a Baller… times 21… he could dole out money to everybody in this forum!!!
I’ve sort of stayed out of this one, because my initial response would have been “but how do you get the spray into your phone?”. Seems today it’s all about texting in that strange “text speak” (when I text,I use correct spellings and proper grammer, then again my phone has a full keyboard) . Long gone are the days of elegantly hand written letters that eloquently convey our feelings for the “other”. Sadly even this aspect of our lives has been “McDonaldized”, that is fast and cheap 
we don’t have (take) the time necessary for “class”. Everyone seems to be aiming at the LCD (lowest common denominator).
Love letters don’t have to be lame. In fact they can be a great part the chase. One of the great privileges of my life was getting to read the love letters that my grandparents wrote to each other in the early 1930s. What I realize about them now after reading some pick up materials is that they followed almost exactly the attract/qualify theory of seduction. My grandpa was in his 40s, Grandma was in her 20s. Most of the letters were Grandpa telling her that he was too old for her and encouraging her to go meet a young man. Grandma would write back qualifying herself and telling him how good she would be for him. They were married 56 years until grandpa died from too much whiskey, tobacco and salt pork at 102.
Sounds like there might have been some over-exertion involved too 
, but all in all, not a bad way to go.
LOL, they and their neighbors actually rigged up a signaling system after they broke a bed one night and could not get out of it. Grandpa was in his early 90s at the time. Very funny stuff they insisted it was termites that broke the bed but our family had some huge laughs over that one.
LOL LOL LOL…
ah…mark?..I was over at renny’s place earlier?..ahem…hope you have an extra set of eyes…!
Hope you don’t mind, BH, but I rearranged your post to better express myself.
Ditto and ditto.
…and that means stepping outside of your wants and desires…that’s why God gave us two ears and one mouth…
…that’s what we’re talkin’ 'bout.
Hope I’m making my point here…
And you’re lookin’ at him right here …if I were you guys…I’d be takin’ notes…
Keeper indeed…and I don’t mean just “the material”…lol…
Bella
I don’t see anything wrong with being passionate or romantic with someone. Players may sleep with a lot of women, but often the women feel manipulated and tricked and wont give them the time of day afterwards.
I personally sleep with a variety of women but did so on a different level where they felt special and comfortable but I always ensure up front I do not have the availability for any commitments and ensure they understand. I have found that I have a large retention and I am the one getting called up to come keep them company. Even women that end up getting into a relationship with someone still keep in contact with me and then when things go sour I am the one they call up to appease their drives. Whether it be for passion or just wall banging wild random fun.
Just my 2 cents on my experiences.
I have written a few “Love Letters” in my days and some of them never got returned but after a few years has past I have gotten an email or letter from them stating how much they enjoy reading my letter and no matter how bad they feel, reading my letter always pick their spirits up.
And knowing they didn’t throw away my letter and they read it from time to time always makes me feel special.
I’ll write a "Love Letter’ in heart beat if I think the person will enjoy reading it.
whats the matter, you jealous?
I wanna be breakin’ a bed or two when I am in my 90s.
np.
Exactly.
You are - and very eloquently at that - that such an interesting, insightful and well spoken woman would give us a wonderful journal of her life and thoughts.
That was the point, right?
:o
Instead of spraying a love letter with pheromones, I’d spray a hallmark card for some special occasion with it. I’d use a pheromone that sticks for a long time like Androstenone with a good long-lasting cover scent, or better yet just use some Ammunition (that stuff does a good job of clinging). I just don’t like the results that people get with love letters (and according to “The Art of Seduction” I’m an ideal lover archetype). You actually get better results showing love letters intended for other women to women that you have placed in the friend zone than you do giving them to the intended target (strange but true). Way back when I was in high school, I used to write love letters for other people because I had a talent for it (and people would pay me for my services), but I quickly noticed that the greatest effect they had was to enamor other girls that read over them before they reached their intended targets. These other girls would go crazy over those letters, while the targets would only show slight reactions. All in all, love letters aren’t worth the effort that goes into creating them, unless you are trying to attract other females that “look over” your work. Just my two cents based off my experiences…
This all reminds of a time..I remember when I was an even sillier kid in high school, I wrote a letter to my gf while visiting a college because she was sad that I wasn’t writing her any. (She would write letters in class then give it to me when we met up after school.)
Anyways, I ended up making her cry. Apparently it was too much for her when I wrote that lacrosse and family were my priorities and that she came third. Oh what a mistake that was! Though, it turned out to be a good idea not making her a priority.
I don’t think I had any clue about what I was writing. I don’t think she had any clue about what to expect in a letter from a high school jock either.
Sorry to hear you gave it up, GH, we could really use a man with that talent here…oh, well…
Guess it depends on the girl…maybe a few dollars stuffed in that envelope would help?.. lol…
Whatever works for ya , baby, whatever works…
Bella
Afreakin’men…as long as the..ah…legs hold out…
Now look who’s :o!
I disagree. Knowing the person you are writing too and the level of interest, and the intentions, with the right “Love Letter” you will always produce a positive reaction. Worth the effort it takes to write it.
Letters and photos are two things that are hard to throw away. So even if your letters didn’t produce the effect you wanted. It is something that will always be with her for the rest of her life and if she discared it, she’ll always wished she didn’t.
But then being paid for writing Love Letters probably gives you a monetary value for the Letters. Kind of like getting paid to have sex. How much do you think “Making Love” means to someone who get paid for having sex?
Ain’t no love about it. When you exchange money for sex it’s strictly business.
The deal you make is the price you pay. Any self respecting pimp or prostitute knows that.
Bella
Afreakin’men!..ah..as long as the legs hold out…and I don’t mean on the bed…
Now look who’s :o!.. so sweet…:o
Wait…gotta put ma shades on…ah…bettah…that “Shine Armor” ‘sho is bright! Nothin’ like comin’ to the rescue of a damsel? who needs a little encouragement! Whoa…
BH knows I’ve been having a little? trouble gettin’ on the horse…guess I shouldn’t’ve greeeezed up the saddle so much…lol
That’s what* I* meant…
Thanks boss,
Bella
Im very happy with my present girlfriend but iv kept every love note that women have given to me through the years…Now if it also smelled like them… WOW!