Welcome to the forums! Sorry to hear about your divorce, but life goes on, and it seems you’re moving on too. That’s important!
Based on your self-perceptions about yourself, I would recommend Instant Shine, Instant Honesty, and Ammo. IShine will give you more confidence and elevate the mood of people around you. Instant Honesty will improve bonding, intimate conversation, and warmth. Ammo will add a touch of sexual tension with women you meet and help keep you out of the dreaded friendzone. Together, these three can have quite the impact when you go out to meet women.
By the way, do you plan to do more clubbing or online dating? This will make a difference on other products that could be beneficial for you. There are other products to improve your presence in a club situation. Come Talk To Me (CTTM) would help make it easier approaching and talking to women. If you’re meeting a woman for the first time through an online site, the three products I mentioned would be appropriate.
You might also check out the Intro Pack for Men. It has a complete set of the commercial line products that you can use in a variety of situations. It’s also a good idea to explore which products give you the best results. Once you know what works for you, then you can get them in larger sizes.
I’m sure the other guys on the forums will offer their perspective and recommendations. So stay tuned!
Ammo this is a must have and is for attraction. Great standalone and nice cologne scent. The scent is powerful so start with 1 or 2 sprays. If you don’t like a strong scent Summer Ammo is a good option. Good for day use to. Will keep you out of friendzone without being overbearing.
IS Will boost confidence and put her in a good mood. Works well in any situation and pairs with all pther pheromones very well. Useful in social, work, family, even sexual situations, very versatile.
TUTH Highly sexual and best used for LMR(Last Minute Resistance). A little goes a long way. I would use when you have built a little rapport with a woman, because this can scare them off if you start off with this on a first date.
IO and IH these should help with the “cold” feeling thing. IO is an icebreaker and opens people right up and IH will promote bonding and deepen conversation. They have these in the 5ML bottles if you are on a budget and gets these separately and not in the men’s kit.
I think the best would be to get the men’s starter kit which would have all these items plus MX297 which is a life of the party mix and A314 spray also. The ulitimate would be get this and the CTTM2 if you can afford it. If not and want to try a few items I would get the Ammo, IS, TUTH, and then look at the CTTM2, IO, and IH in the 5 ML bottles.
The idea with TUTH is that, for most users, it sends a very strong and raw sex signal to the ladies. To some, it can be intimidating, to others, scary, or to some others, you’ll simply ‘come out too strong’ and they’ll end up ignoring you. TUTH is intended to fend off last minute resistance before taking a lady to bed. This means that you should preferably get real comfortable with a lady first. Then, much later in the evening, when you’re ready to close the deal, add a spray of TUTH. Ammo is a great product to get for flirting and to send a mild sexual presence to the ladies. It will also boost your confidence.
Regarding hedione, I’d keep it for later when you’ll have determined your sweet spot (i.e. required number of sprays) for each AD product you’ll buy. Then you can experiment with that one. But hey, that’s just me . Hedione is great with a combo of Ammo and TUTH.
If you want a few products to try I would try IS and Ammo together for work. I would really consider getting Instant Shine. Will put everyone in a great mood and boost confidence. This does help with approach IMO. I think if you got IS, Ammo, and TUTH you would have a good setup. I think with these 3 you will have the basics for dating IMO.
With Hedione take a look into Conjurator and Jdub journal and you will find a lot of good info about it. Some users prefer the Dab method and some of use in a mix of about 20 to 30%. If you mix I wouldn’t go over 30% though. I do think your safest bet with it is to use the dab method and this way you don’t have to worry about mixing and messing anything up.
It is best to sweet spot test and find what is best for you and how many sprays of each product. Don’t get to hung up on app points, as long as it is a pulse point it will get heat which is the main thing to diffuse these things.
A good combo would be like 2 sprays IS, 2 sprays Ammo and 2 to 3 dabs of Hedione. With Hedione just keep app points separate from your pheromone application points.
I hope you find your free GC in your email helpful.
The recommendations above are great and were tried and tested by past and present pheromone users. You just have to up your game and do some sweetspot hunting first.
There ain’t no shortcut in winning them girls, well.. unless you’re visiting a strip club. Best mones in there is spelled m-o-n-e-y.
Happy Pheroing!
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