So i lived my whole life in new york and moved to another state a few years ago. I still havent made any friends and have no one to talk to. I seem to have a hard time having deep conversations. I have a resting b**** face so i guess i look unapproachable. Then when people talk to me its always a very superficial conversation that never leads to anything deeper. No phone number exchanges or outings. I feel so lonely.what pheromones woukd be best fir looking more approachable, spark spontaneous conversations and help to converse more deeply and form an attatchment? I was thinking of getting instant shine for confidence. Im debating between IO, IH, or Come and talk to me gor better friendships . Please help!
No debate.
IS, IO, IH, ISexiness B, MX135.
These will not make your situation change quickly though. If the people around you is used to your natural pheromone signature, it will take some time before they actually embrace your new vibe. So be patient. 
Happy pheroing!
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Welcome to the forum Royals, I had to laugh just a bit when you said that bit about “resting b****” face. My little sister introduced me to that comment this year and it’s pretty hilarious…though I’m not attempting to belittle your worries. If it makes you feel at all better, life in NY forces you to be rather hard.
DeeA has hooked you up with some good mones and honestly I think the pheromones will do as much for you as with others, without you even realizing it. I’ll add that MX297 gets people taking their heads off and puts ppl in a pretty good mood…it doesn’t hurt that (i think) it smells amazing.
At any rate, we are glad to have you and look forward to seeing your journal in the women’s section.
i’ll take note of those but just one question. Why do you recommend ISB for friendship?
I can add something to this as an IS/B user…think little black dress that you always look great in and feel great in…but also, one that is always aces with everyone you interact with. When you feel absolutely brilliant, it’s hard not to smile. The pros may have a more suitable answer for you, but in my limited experience it helps to put your day right, and as an automatic result…makes you smile just a bit.
They are kind of like the “set of pearls” every lady should have…and definitively not in an old lady sort of way, but in a “you can clearly see that I’m a woman, now get the door” sort of way…don’t worry, you’ll already be smiling
ISB has been reported as having a confidence boosting effect to its user, and most of the time, this confidence reflects a vibe that tells the people around you that you are somehow interesting and friendly.
Good for initial interactions, which is a must, when making friends.
If you only buy one pheromone, I would recommend you get mx135. It’s an all winner. It’s a beautifier that women are not threatened by. Random women actually talk to me when I wear this. If you use it with IH, it will make them actually feel like they have a connection to you, and might deepen the conversations they have with you. P86 is another one that people respond very well to. Both mx135 and p86 have that “like me” quality to them that attracts friendly people to you. Instant Shine will get you attention too, in my experience it made me bolder and more outgoing. It made me feel very comfortable doing things that would get me attention. Where as mx135 gets you attention without you having to do anything to get it. I find people staring at me, sometimes nonstop. Like all attention is on me when I’m just sitting there. p78 is another one that gets you friendly attention from women, sometimes they follow me or stand there looking at me, waiting for me to talk to them. They are super friendly when I start talking to them. P91 is another one that makes women want to be around you and makes them very friendly. I once combined it with mx135 to a meeting. This one lady literally RAN to chase me down, was all out of breath when she got to me just to introduce herself. They’re all great choices, what works best for you will depend on your personality and social environment. Good luck, let us know how it turns out for you.
So i tried instant shine and Mx135. IS seems to give me a headache every time i wear it but it does make me more outgoing. Definitely not extroverted but im more comfortable. Im not sure about Mx135 because i tested it in class and i doubt it would hit on people so focused. How many sprays should i use? I used two pumps of IS behind my ears. For Mx135 i put it on my wrists. is this too much or too little?
Royals,
When trying any new scents or mones, you can get a headache from them as I have and sometimes do. I would say ease into it with maybe just one spray and as you get accustomed to it up the spray to two. It’s not really fun if it’s giving you a headache.
As for being able to give people a hit in class, yes you actually can. It’s usually one of those things where the person next to you, in front or behind you (in your near area) keeps fidgeting or looking around.
I’d recommend taking a quick read through How to Apply the Pheromones?Best places
?HITS? and how to get them (How do I know if I am getting hits !!)
What Pheromones Can Do And What They Can’t Do
These quick reads will help you in understanding some of the works.
Maybe take a day break from the phermones and try again on another day when you are more rested. I should also mention, it takes using the product for more than the one time to allow you to be more comfortable and possibly extrovert. This is not a quick evolution. If you can simply try to enjoy the level of comfort you a growing into on a day to day basis. (What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers)
Please tell us about the IS’ dosage. How many sprays did you take. Thanks!
Some pheromones can take getting used to. I know every time I used a new bottle of p86, I got so tired I wanted to take a nap. It only happened the first time I used it. Personally, I like to test pheromones when I am home alone. I start out with one spray and I pay attention to everything I am feeling and noticing. Then build up from there, next day I test two sprays, then three sprays and on.
Three sprays also have created a sort of crush attraction from guys, when they see my friends or family again, they begin to look for me. Women talk to me all the time when I wear this one, I normally wear 3 sprays. They either come out and start talking to me or they start smiling at me so that I can talk to them.
You will get different responses depending on the social situation you’re in. One thing I have noticed about pheromones is that they do affect the person even if they don’t seem to respond, because the next time they are around me, they act different, like they have some kind of connection to me.
You’re also using them around people who have already formed opinions about you. Using these two in a college class where everyone is trying to concentrate might even come across as a distraction. I would keep using them as long as you’re not noticing any negative responses. Their feelings about you will be influenced by the pheromones, and it might take a while in these social settings for you to see a change in the way they treat you. If you use them on a less formal situation, like a store, the park, church, a club, you will notice different responses there.