There is this girl that i have been going out with and i really care about her and i know that she too does have feelings for me. however in the last few days, we have drifted apart to the point that she doesnt even want to talk to me anymore. its not because of something i have done but she has frequent bouts of depression and during this time she chooses to shut everyone out.
so, i will be meeting her for one last time before we decide to go our own seperate ways (atleast thats what i have told her). the thing is that i want to win her back and for that i need her to tell me she wants me because i have told that to her many times and it didnt work.
so, i dont want to take any second chances on this date. i have ordered IO, IH and IS in to-go packs. i would really appreciate if someone could advise me as to how exactly i use them (number of sprays and which parts of the body). i am looking for tried and tested methods here because this will be my last chance at getting her back.
There are no tried and tested methods because you haven’t had a chance to try and test it beforehand. What works for someone may and probably will not work the same for you. Normally in these “high stakes” situations it’s best to go minimal and go safe. IO, IH and IS all are pretty safe at a wide range of doses.
The clinical symptoms of depression can be quite different from those of a layman’s version. When someone is clinically depressed, the person almost always has a lack of desire for just about anything including basic functions such as eating and showering/bathing. So, if this girl is indeed clinically depressed, my experience tells me there isn’t much, if anything at all, you can do to make her desire you or anyone sexually.
All you can do is give her time and space, and be supportive. When she snaps out of it and feels she’s ready to accept someone, you will be there for her to see at the very least.
if you want to help her through it iv read somwhere that there are 3 things you can do to overcome depression,
1.change thought patterns. (obviously you cant change her thought patterns unless you are a expert at using nlp or somthing like it)
2. change body language, get a big dumb grin on your face and stand in a confident possition. possibly with big arm, leg etc movements (again, this isnt somthing you can stealthly do to her ^^ you need tog et her to do it)
and i cant by the gods of Dunmanifestin remember what the 3rd thing was…
but singing with to a just about any music track has always helped me when iv been on my way into a depression, though it may just be becouse i enjoy singing ^^