Alright, so I’m having dinner with my girlfriend’s father Monday…
He’s a U.S. Marshal, Marine Reservist, been a fed and/or military for over 20 years… I know what works well on her in my arsenal, as she was the first person I regularly wore mones around. But, I imagine I’ll need the backup especially with her father.
So the girl is 21, she doesn’t respond poorly to A314, in fact rather indifferently. So of my Instant Openness, Instant Shine and A314 what would YOU wear to meet her father?
That has to call for a hefty dose of IJ, A314 and P75 - You will make an impression like no other! 
Otherwise, out of those three - IS and A314 would be my sensible choice. Pleasant, engaging status - This is all about him, not her! 
I’d go with A314 and IH, this has worked best at job interviews for me and I think you’re about to step into an interview. Good luck cos you’d probably need it
This was my thought
Instant Shine and A314 went over pretty well. Had her mom, dad and brother’s undivided attention, was a nice evening.