I’ve been reading how some people have luck with MX135 combined with IS/A and some people don’t, maybe because of conflicting TAH vs. TAL responses. So, I decided to do some experimenting. When I wore IS/A the other day by itself (1 spray split between wrists and 1 spray to neck) the first thing I noticed was that I loved the self effects. I felt confident, centered, and sexy and I ended up getting lots of things done rather than procrastinating. I didn’t get a big chance to judge other people’s reactions that day, other than my boyfriend saying it smelled nice.
Last night I went to a concert with a male friend of mine. Earlier in the day I had put on 1 spray MX135 to my wrists to test out the scent. I like the chocolatini ok but I would rather get it in Neroli. After about 10 minutes I started feeling more easy going and playful, more relaxed about the long list of stuff I wanted to do before that night. I went to the store and noticed that I had a huge smile on my face, and I was smiling at everyone, so I got smiles in return. The girl at the check-out counter was really nice, went out of her way to place everything in my cart after she rang it up. However, I felt like the product wore away quickly, and after an hour I really didn’t notice it anymore unless I sniffed my wrist directly. I actually put my wrist under my boyfriend’s nose and he said he couldn’t smell anything.
A few hours later, 15 minutes before my friend showed up I sprayed 2 sprays of IS/A to the chest, 1 spray to the hair, 1 spray Instant Shine to my chin/upper neck, 2 sprays MX135 to my chest and then 1 spray to my hair. He was kind of standoffish at first, although as soon as we got in the car he started venting about problems with his wife and how he wants a divorce. It wasn’t uncommon for him to feel comfortable talking to me, but he disclosed a bit more than normal.. an effect I would have guessed more from Instant Openness or Instant Honesty. Anyway, he didn’t say anything about the way I smelled or even seem to notice at all, even though I had told him earlier I was going to try out a new perfume.
The reactions I got from other people that night were normal so I suppose my confusion comes from what to do next. I get looked at all the time but rarely approached unless a guy has really high self confidence. I love the self effects of both MX135, which didnt make me feel ditzy, just girly, and IS/A which makes me feel confident and sexy. Men tend to be intimidated by me or write me off as someone they can’t have so they aren’t vocal about attraction unless I show interest first (which rarely happens since im very shy). I’m tired of guys waiting, sometimes years, having crushes but doing nothing about it. Any suggestions?
MX135 and IS/a seems to work well for some and not at all for others for some reason, but it looks like you got some results, however subtle.
Lol I suffer from the same problem, I’m the really shy girl who seems to intimidate guys somehow, but I guess guys can be just as shy too. Recently I’ve been going super heavy on the social pheros to help with this.
Yea, I’ve read some other posts where some people didn’t get major hits from mx135 combined with is/a. So I think that it depends on your body chemistry. However, you did get some hits! which is excellent! I’m jealous of the fact that is/a gives you great reactions! when I wear is/a sometimes I would get cranky or more quiet. however, I would still have people surrounding me lol
Even though you have subtle hits for now, you should still play around with them. Sometimes it takes time for your body and people who know you to get used to your new pheros.
I agree with MS,
It took awhile for the pheros to work with my body as well, but I was bound and determined to work the pheros…so I kept reading post and trying different things and more and more I begin to see results, some of them really amazing results (yeah uh I really need to do another post) so anyway, I agree that it may take some time for your body to get adjusted, but once it does…baby life is goood!
keep working the pheros, you are on the right track…what I like about you is that you go for it in regards to making your own combo…I generally borrow bits and pieces of others, for now anyway.
ps…mx135 with IS/B/Tah/and instant shine is a winner for me on most days
Em - I hear you on that one! Do you ever talk yourself out of a great guy b/c you are too shy and he wont make a move?
Geez, I had a crush on a guy for almost 2 years and was too shy to have a proper convo w/him.
That’s where I think the experimentation is great. Even if you are shy, you know you have something to fall back on. I have called MX135 my “safety net”.
Good luck with your combos. Don’t be afraid to spray a ton of Shine. Especially if you are outside…
I think for work, cleaning, everyday life, IS/A is best
For, going out having fun, sex, MX135 is best.
I think if you use a little IS/A and a lot of MX135 it balances it. And yes, what everyone else said you should spray tomas of Instant Shine and Instant Openess & Instant Honesty.
Instant Openess makes me in a really cheerful mood. And maybe your friend was more forthcoming with the Instant Shine even though you didn’t have Instant Openess or Instant Honesty on is because Instant Shine is a unisex product and his mood probably lightened and maybe he felt better so could handle talking about things that bothered him. Also, I wouldn’t be too sad that he didn’t notice your ’ new perfume ’ evem though you told him because he was probably just immersed in his his head & problems if he is talking about getting a divorce.
Plus, Pheromones aren’t really about the smell. You should ask Tisha because she wrote me this really good message explaining it. It is really they are molecules that latch on to people’s neurotransmitters in their brains. Almost like a chemical reaction, i guess. You should ask her, though. She explaioned it better & in more detail.
Also, try getting a big bottle of Instant Openess or Instant Shine and adding 20X Couplins to it. Then they’ll be too overwhelmed to not speak up!
Yeah I’ve definately been in those situations before, only to find out later that he had liked me too. I’ve found that sometimes guys think my shyness is me ignoring them or trying to be aloof. Grr. Silly boys.
Now I just need to concoct the perfect phero blend of magnetism and confidence.
And I’m loving the Instant Shine.. 1 spritz and I feel worlds better.
To get guys to approach, wear your social pheros. Instant Shine, Instant Honesty, Instant Openness, and P74. The issue is the guy’s comfort, not his attraction.
Any suggestions?
and 4 sprays of Instant Honesty.
Grr. Silly boys.