Haha its fine, you can ask as many questions as you’d like!
I would recommend you first start off with normal strength just until you get a good feel for what you like. I got the 2x so I wouldn’t have to use as much. 1x is great for using in more areas to create a bigger phero cloud.
Very True. There are many girls out there who have relationship problems because they send out the wrong signals or are too shy or insecure to meet new people. Usually the guys who approach me are pretty confident (and determined lol). Other guys see my shy personality as me being standoffish or rude, as a few have told me so. This is not the case at all as I often dont mind guys approaching me. it’s just really stressful for a person like me to converse with people I am not already comfortable with
Awww Thanks Steve!!
Hahahah sweet!! You are the big brother I never had
Thanks Mickaelia! You guys are making me feel great about myself already
Pheromones have definitely helped me with my shyness. They have literally changed my social life for the better. Taking breaks from them has shown me how much they really did for me. I am however working on building my confidence so that I dont depend on them so much. I’ve noticed a great way of building this confidence is by doing things I love and are good at. Things I know I will recieve praise and recognition for
I wore Come Talk to Me the other day in class. I was sitting at my desk getting ready to take a test when a guy decided to take the seat in front of me. Before he sat, he turned to me and randomly poked me in the stomach. He freaked out cause he didn’t know I had abs, so he tried to poke me again. Then he tried to pick up my desk with me in it, but I stood up lol. He was asking me why I was prettier than my younger sister (she looks just like me ) and was grabbing my foot during the test.
On the way to my next class, I felt a pat on the back. It was a girl I hadn’t talked to in awhile (despite her being in on of my classes). She started talking to me about something and we talked all the way to class. I noticed it was much easier to carry on a conversation. Everything just flowed real smoothly despite me not knowing her that well.
I noticed CTTM made me feel more confident and it actually helped me take my test. I was writing a lot faster and was able to think clearly.
Today IO 2x
1x to my neck
1x to the back of my neck
I wore this to go shopping and I noticed I was spacing off a lot. Probably wore too much :o. I felt really calm and was talking with my sister about a bunch of random stuff. I was actually yelling at one point and my sister was like “Ssshhhhhhhh” hahaha I was like “WHENEVER I WEAR INSTANT SHINE…”. I didn’t even notice I was yelling! This was really weird because I’m normally very quiet.
When we got in the toy store to buy my dad an Airzooka for christmas, the guy at the register was asking me questions and laughing because i kept dropping stuff. Then he took his own Airzooka from a shelf and shot me with it! Yeah… Fun day
Today I decided to have some fun with TAC . It was my first time using it and I had no idea what to expect.
TAC 12.5mcg (neroli)
1x to my neck
1x to the back of my neck
The first reaction I noticed was my little sisters. She walked over to give me a hug, but ended up just staring at me really weird. Lol she looked confused. My other sister kept talking to me about our childhood and things we use to do as kids. My mom was in a great mood as well. It seemed like everyone around me was pretty happy and content.
The main thing I noticed with TAC was the self-effects. It made me act and feel like a little kid! I was jumping around, bopping my head, and whinning at my mom when things didn’t go my way. I kept punching her shoulder, telling her to buy me some limonade . I was really being a bit immature and my mom finally asked me what my problem was. “Tiffany whats your deal?! You haven’t acted like this in years… what is wrong with you?” I didn’t tell her it was the TAC (lets just hope it was anyways ). After shopping, we went to visit my cousins who flew in for the holidays. my younger cousins who are in the age range of 1-7 were all hugging me and sitting on my lap, yelling in my face… you know kid stuff. They are all very outgoing anyways, so it wasn’t all that unusual I guess. It was just a little strange since a few of them I had never met before.
Overall TAC made me smile more. It gave me the feeling of being a little kid again. It took me back to the days when everything amused me. Hmm this might be a good one to use on christmas
This has nothing to do with pheromone testing. I really need to vent about something thats been bugging me these past few days. Feel free to share your thoughts. I’m mainly writing for myself. (writing is a great way to get things off your chest :o)
Have you ever had someone send you a ton mixed signals? Since summer started I had sorta been hanging with this guy. He would tell me he liked me one day and not talk to me the next. He could rarely hangout and he always blamed it on work and school. What irked me the most was the times he just chose not to hang because he wanted to watch a game or a movie at home. I understand people need time to themselves, but it really didn’t seem like he made any effort to ever make anything workout between us …
Now I will admit… I am a bit cough naive when it comes to relationships. I just wanted things to work out so badly that I allowed myself to get hurt. This guy obviously didn’t care about me at all. I can see now that he probably never saw our “relationship” (or whatever you may wish to call it…) going anywhere. He never once invited me to his house. Never once introduced me to anyone of his friends or family (maybe like 2 of his friends when they just so happened to be around). He would sometimes give me weird looks when I said hi to him at church. For the longest time he wouldn’t even look me in the eye and he blamed it on me (apparently I stared at him strangly). Sure we hungout every once in a while, but hardly at all. He also liked trying to make me jealous for some reason.There were times when I told myself I was done. I wasn’t going to put up with this guy any longer. Then what happens? He would see I was getting annoyed and starts sweet talking me again. Being an idiot I fell for it everytime.
This past month we have failed to have a decent conversation. Turns out he’s moving in a week. He told me this today. I am so fed up and mad at him for hurting me. I have never felt this way towards someone before. And by feeling this way I mean like an angry/ upset/ “I wanna kick your butt for making feel this pain” sort of feeling. (I’m not bitter towards guys as a rule, but he really pushed my buttons)
I’m sick and tired of games! I’m upset that I was so stupid not to have seen the obvious signs. You live and you learn I guess…
hugs There is definitely someone wayyy better coming your way. I’m glad he’s moving! I might give him a swift kick in the arse as he leaves too! More space for someone better to come along! morehugs
Awww thanks Madison!! I really do hope so! I need to find someone better to help me get over this. I just need to be patient and learn from my mistakes so I dont fall into the same trap twice … It probably is best that he’s moving so I’m not tempted to go back to him.
Good thing you didn’t waste any of your good sprays on this guy!
Your vent sounds almost like something I’d hear about as an example of “He’s Just Not that Into You”. I didn’t read the book, but remember when it was like a pop culture hit?
Anyway, good thing he’s moving. Just take it as a lesson learned and if you see similar signs in your next romantic interest, keep this experience in mind, and don’t go for it!
I know… it kind of reminds me of that movie. The problem was that he kept telling me he wanted to hangout and that he really liked me, so It gave me hope I guess (…little did I know). Yeah now I’m glad I didn’t use any sprays when I was around him . I will definitely keep this in mind next time I’m interested in someone. I do not want to repeat my mistake.
They say that guys work the same way women do, but lots of the time we’re just as confusing to each other as men are. My friend/ “friend” works this way too, actually. She’ll ignore me because she likes to see me jump through hoops to try and get her approval and when I don’t, she’s nice to me again only to ignore me the next day.
She also sometimes turns to me and says “oh my god, I hate ___ SO much!” and then she completely flatters them and starts conversations with them. She even hangs out with them, when she has always rejected me when I’ve asked to hang out (she’s going out to lunch, she’s at the far away parent’s house, etc.) and she always “forgets” to ask until I remind her the day of when she tells me she can’t.
Does this sound like the guy? Sounds like the only girl who might understand him is her, haha. Anyways, I’m really sorry he was such a jerk. I say, since he’s moving and you won’t have to see him much longer, you should confront him. Tell him he was an idiot and why. This way, if he didn’t know how much he was hurting you, now he knows what not to do in the future, and you also get something off your chest.
That’s why I used it as a buffer for any of the mixes I created with heavy-none. It’s very fun and giddy like. Once I ran over a shrubbery and all I could do was laugh.
Unfortunately you were caught in his game. This guy used textbook Mystery Method on you and at the same time completely screwed its use all up too. Everything he did has a time and a place in a way of garnering a woman’s desire. Like most boys who use the Mystery Method, or PUA skills, they are completely oblivious to how and why they are to use the method. They read one thing that uses “jealousy” to make a woman’s desire for you even stronger, but they simply fail to use it correctly. So you have a lady interested, but not understanding how its used correctly rather than solidifying the relationship you drive a wedge between it.
The good news is you have Me, who is more than willing to share my knowledge with you and help you overcome PUA guys so you have an advantage again. Now, please understand I am putting myself at GREAT risk by offering you these services as I am sure once this gets out I will have a HIT put on me. Seriously though I can help.
PM your email and I’ll send you some information so you know exactly what the guy is doing and why. Wouldn’t it be FUN when the next guy pulls a stunt like that and you can explain to him why he is doing it, on what page he read it on, and just how he messed it up. Become their teacher instead of their research subject.
I have a “friend” who is a lot like the one you described… I’ve given her the cold shoulder a few times and taking the hint she’s gotten a little better about some of the rude stuff she says to me. about a month or so ago, she tried convincing me I wasn’t good enough to audition for the school musical. She knows how much acting means to me and that I have been in weekly classes for over 2 years now, but she proceeded to tell me how great all these drama people were… “It wouldn’t hurt you to try i guess… you wont get a lead, but you might get in the chorus or something”. She was really urging me not to perform my monologue. I had never performed for anyone outside of class, so you can imagine how nervous I was. She had nearly talked me out of the entire audition and I had already decided against doing my monologue (‘Shes probably right’ I thought ‘It would only hurt me to see my 2 years of training not mustard to anything in comparison these drama kids’). When the director called my name, asking me if I wanted to perform a monologue, something pulled me up on that stage (God maybe?) and when I got up there I suddenly felt at ease. It was just like class. Getting up there made me realize my true passion for acting. I want to do this my whole life! Long story short I ended up wowing everyone with my monologue. It made my friend mad hearing from so many people how great of an actress I was. They were saying that I gave them chills and almost made them cry. Hearing this, she demanded I show her my monologue so that she could judge for herself if I was really any good. My response to her? “No”. I wasn’t about to give her the opportunity to put me down again. I do my best to stay away from this girl, but try to stay on good terms because I have to see her everyday at school. Sorry I kind of went off on a story there… more venting I guess :o.
Back to your question. The guy is kind of like that in the sense that he likes to play games and see what kind of reactions he can get from me (I do my best not to give him any reaction and remain my cheerful self around him). It’s really annoying. I would confront him about it, but I dont want to give him the satisfaction of knowing he got to me in anyway. It would probably just give him a big head. He might see me as weak and probably have no regrets of his actions. Not that he does anyways, but I dont want him to think he had any significance in my life. Haha I’m cold I know .
Today I went to a basketball game with one of my friends. I decided to give p86 a try and see what it could do on its own. This was my first time using it and I really liked it !
p86 25mcgs (Grapefruit)
1x to the front of my neck
1x to the back of my neck
Shortly after I sprayed it I felt cheerful and confident. When I got in my friends car I was talking a lot more than usually, surprisingly with out caring too much about what I said. It decreased my shyness.
On the way to the game (about an hour away) I noticed I had this weird numb feeling. I started to get light headed and spacey (similar to spaceland). I noticed my friend wasn’t talking as much, but she looked a little tired. My mind was sort of running wild as I experienced some deep introspection. My chattyness had shifted from my mouth to my mind. I was now talking things out with myself (more than usual). I was thinking about relationships and things that would normally make me very upset. Funny thing was I didn’t get upset at all. Instead I looked at my situations in a new positive light. I thought “Hey, I can fix this problem”.
When we finally arrived, the numbing feeling had settled to a dream like feel. It was like everything I did was a dream, so it didn’t matter much what I did. Life was good. We had to park very far from the gym and my friend was taking her sweet time about getting out of the car. I got a little annoyed, but not at all upset or angry. I just felt calm and I was actually laughing at every situation.
During the game, my friend was talking about how tired she felt and I agreed explaining how I could really use an energy drink. It wasn’t long before I felt a tap on my shoulder. It was two guys I knew from school. They are both usually very nice, but they seemed a lot more interested in me today. They kept tapping my shoulder, finding reasons to talk to me. Both of them asked me why I wasn’t cheering anymore.
“You were the prettiest on and the best cheerleader!” Lol when one of them would leave, the other would strike up a conversation about something random. I noticed I was easily able to keep contact and smile. They seriously looked infatuated! I have never seen either of them look at me with that much admiration. It was a real puppy dog look and it was kind of cute .
Life is just good with p86. Sure it makes you a little tired, but it is well worth it! Everything appears softer and nicer with this one. It makes me feel daring, flirty, cheerful, and confident. Btw, I’m really liking the grapefruit scent now. It is very soft and fruity; not at all over bearing and it smells delicious!
Was that 25mcg total (as in two sprays of 12.5) or was it two sprays of 25 totaling 50?
P86 has been described as game show host before. Where as you are the charismatic conversationalist that keeps everything going and even in trying situations you keep it light and positive. A shinning example of introspective resonance in our most vulnerable times.
I’m thinking that the P86 actually took care of the vulnerabilities around you, which just happened to this time be in your mind. Also the tiredness comes from your neural synopses being overloaded with data. A good multi-vitamin or energy drink would help. It’s just that your brain is not always used to all the stimuli presented and mones can certainly increase the availability of “stuff” to contemplate.
Also the P86 seems to have presented some of its charismatic conversation over tot he two guys. Where as they too were effected. How about your friend though: other than just being tired, was she at all extra ordinarily talkative? What is she like normally?
It was 50 mcg in all. Great thoughts, thanks! This explains a lot of what I was feeling and why. I can’t really say that I noticed much of a difference in my friend. She just seemed very tired and as a result of it spoke less. When she did talk, she did laugh and smile a lot. She is normally pretty up beat, but now that I think about it, there was a sort of extra positive light I about her. People around me all appeared very happy as well.