My definition of a "Hit"

An unexpected outcome

All you young guys, don’t worry too much about it. If you are better today than yesterday by some twist or turn of ‘fate’ it’s probably a “Hit.”

Don’t worry too much about whether or not the earth shook, women are complicated in ways that we are not ( & vice versa).

Life is good. Share it with someone you love or love someone you share it with :slight_smile:

doug

I get those all the time without mones! I’d consider a “hit” a positive outcome aided by use of mones.

Hi pal.

Unfortunately some people seem to think that an “unexpected outcome” means something as simple as smiling at someone. They interpret you smiling at them to mean you are hitting on them when that isn’t the case. This works both ways for men and women. I am currently caught up in a situation like this with a female co worker who seems to think that by me being friendly and smiling at her (which i do to everyone) is me hitting on her, when i am just trying to be nice.

It seems to me that everyone’s definition of a hit will vary.

Take care man.

Peace

I know what your saying. Pheromones can change peoples perception of you slowly over time without any sudden “HIT”. The don’t worry about it too much is good advice for sure. It’s best to stop looking for knee jerk reactions caused by pheromones and pay attention to how you are generally percieved over a period of time. With a little patience peoples true feelings are often revealed.

Pheromones can have a profound affect on other peoples perception of you but this may only be refflected subtly through there behaviour.

Yeah, in fact I have a kind of general “lift” in socialisation quite a lot. This is harder to quantify and describe than “girl X smiled at me flirtatiously <hit!>, bloke Y offered to buy me a drink <hit!>…” but is quite noticeable, because things just go more smoothly at a party or other event, and at the end of the day/night one goes home with a general impression of having had an extra cool time.

Yeah you put it much better than I could. I agree totally.

Yah, I agree that a Hit could be misinterpreted or fabricated by someone. But I believe that you shouldn’t think her smiling at you as “phero-neutral.” It could just be that she has had a whiff of what you are putting out there. The air molecules don’t discriminate where they go or to whom they affect.

I got back into this hobby as a result of an unintended siren song from a young woman who I SWEAR was putting something into the air. I finally got the courage to ask her if she was using pheromones (or was it was all in my head.) She said no pheromones. She didn’t want me----which is totally OK-----but was I affected???Hell yes! It can happen. So, I decided to give these products a try and they waor as fara as I can tell. My wife loves the smell and it seems to smooth out some of our rough spots, though we don’t have many :slight_smile:

Peace,

Doug

Couldn’t have said it better myself…

Apparently some girls at my gym think I am hitting on them when I talk to them… Nevermind the fact that it is just small talk, and I do it inbetween sets to make the time go by… Or the fact that I have never said anything that would indicate I find them attractive lol…

Women :wink:

I agree with the nice bit, I am a decent guy and am nice to everyone. Recently though some girls think I am a looser just by being friendly. I just don’t get it sometimes. That actually made me quite angry so much I was seething, just because I am being nice and friendly (not overly so) makes me a looser.

Have enough people at work which respect and like me though which is nice. :slight_smile: