Hey sweetie!
Glad to see that you were having fun with your pheros. You’ve got some nice hits there, you used only 2 sprays of is/a hmm? if you don’t mind can you tell us your age range? If you’re around your 20s then 2 sprays is probably enough (I usually have to use 2-4) but if you’re in your 30s-40s, you’d probably have to use more to see results 
Now for your questions 
When you start wearing pheros, give it sometime. Your body needs time to adjust to your signature. Plus this guy “John” is probably thrown by your new signature, he’s probably thinking “Woah…is it just me? Or does she look like a hot mama today?! Damn!” lol, he’s probably trying to figure things out, poor boy. It’s also takes people (who know you) sometime to adjust to your new siggy.
On the other hand, who knows, maybe he doesn’t like dominant girls, he might like tah girls better (tah = soft, kittenish girls)
Don’t jump to conclusions too fast though, keep workin’ those pheros out, sometimes, it also takes some time to find the correct dosage/ in the right spot for you. It’s pretty much trial and error kinda fun It’s quite thrilling, when you find the perfect spot with the right dosage!
Do keep in mind that pheros wont make someone like you that way if they only like you as a friend from the beginning, they just work as enhancers, and the rest we’ve got to work for it lol Check this baby out What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers
You seemed to have used nice pheros in difference combinations, and your dosage seems fine to me. But keep experimenting you’re still new and your body is trying to adapt to your new signature. I don’t think you OD’d it, and those aggressive men were probably aggressive by nature lol, I swear when I wore is/a most men were charming, and polite lol, got some stares too But then I guess it depends on situation, place…etc…
Do read the link I included on the previous question. Sometimes, certain people wont be attracted to you no matter what. (I don’t mean this in a mean way my love! I’m sure you’re a real hot deal!) Pheros just enhance you, for example, if a 20 year old jock type of guy wore turn up the heat (which is a pheromone to arouse women), yes, I’d feel hot, yep I might find him smokin’. But if I’m not into “jock” looking guys, I will probably be like “woah, he’s hot…but I like nerds betters”, and I’d probably dismiss my thought about the jock, and go to the book club lol. So I think it’s a matter of sex in that part, it’s like I had a choice to flirt or get laid with the jock but I decided no- I personally like nerds better, but hey, I found a hot jock today. So it’s a matter of personal preference. Who knows, he might or might not be feeling the same way about you.
If you’re only into seducing him, you could give LAM a try but from reports I’ve read, it’s more sexual and happy-go-lucky.
I suggest you to give instant honesty a go though, it makes things more intimate. Do keep trying though, don’t give up yet! As time passes by you’ll be a pro
Good luck!