great first post. Welcome to the forum 
u might read this post by tisha if u have not already (What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers) (click the (What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers))
To understand the effects of mones u have to stick with them for a period of time. It took me bout a week to get any sort of results. just stick with it any u will notice results.
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