Pheromone usage is a little like gourmet cooking, or painting, or writing a symphony, or anything else that is creative and purpose driven. So there are a lot of elements that go into choosing what you want to wear.
A pheromone like Est would be wasted with a man who is already protective and attentive and cuddly. Ditto for a motivational pheromone like P93 with someone who is already well organized and self-motivated. And Androstenone is terrible to use with someone who is irritable and intolerant and likes to fight. So, yes, you need to look at what you want to accomplish in the general and in the particular when you are choosing pheromones. But some pheromones, like the socials are good for just about anyone.
Just a note: Steve at Androtics is available during business hours to help walk you through products that will help you achieve what you are after. Steve is very experienced in pheromone usage and he is a real Godsend in that regard.
As for my husband, he is a pretty complex critter. He’s incredibly intelligent and a natural born leader. He is also stubborn, highly intolerant, and a perfectionist in many regards, and easy to anger. When irritated he can be highly irrational and nearly impossible to calm down – unless you can out-Alpha him. He’s also got a wicked (though somewhat naive) sense of humor. He’s very much goal-oriented and not very team oriented. He’s driven, artistic, impulsive, and very visually-oriented. He also has a kind heart and can’t pass by a person who is in distress without doing all that he can to alleviate the distress. He is not curious about much of anything that is not in his immediate environment. Even though he is not a tall man, he projects an aura of great physical presence wherever he goes. He’s a little impulsive and irrational regarding possessions and stuff. You ever hear the saying, “You can’t have everything… where would you put it?” He never worries about that … he wants it… he gets it. So he’s a a clutter bug. As complex as he is, he can come across as lacking in depth because he is more concerned with the here and now than anything deeply meaningful, and he is unburdened by any noticeable spiritual drive. He is, however, a religious man, with a very concrete belief system that adds to his drive for and honor of core traditional values. He loves deeply and loyaly and takes his responsibilities very seriously. He can blow through obstacles that others find insurmountable.
A less Alpha female than myself would be run over by him like a mac truck with no brakes on a steep hill.
If you are into this kind of thing: he is a 7th House Cancer Sun with Sagittarius rising and Moon in Gemini. He has a tight Grand Earth Trine in the 1st, 5th, and 9th Houses comprised of Jupiter in Capricorn, Mar in Taurus, and Pluto in Virgo, respectively. His 12th House is empty . He has a Yod comprised of the Moon and Uranus pointing to Saturn in Capricorn in the 2nd house.
Diane