my husband doesn't like IS-B

I got my first order from Androtics today and I really like their customer service. They even gave me a free gift on top of the gift certificate, and the free gift was perfect for me. I was so excited that I sprayed 5 sprays of Instant Sexiness B. I went to my husband’s office and I noticed a definate hit after about 10 minutes of being together alone in that room. He’s only been affected by EOW, so I was glad to get a reaction from him. I was just sitting there quietly. All of a sudden, he got a really strange look on his face, one that I have never seen before since I met him. I asked him if he was ok and he said, " I can’t concentrate". He said he had never felt that way before. I sit in his office all the time while he works and he’s allways been fine with that. He got in a really bad mood and left the room, leaving me sitting there. I went to check up on him, and he told me that he didn’t know what was going on. That he turned to see some numbers, and the next thing he knew, he had forgotten the numbers. He said he didn’t understand how his mind just couldn’t concentrate and that he just wanted to be left alone. He was really angry and annoyed for the next 5 hours or so. He was hostile to the kids and I. He avoided eye contact with me, was angry at me, and treated me like I was annoyingly incompitent. He has his bad moods sometimes but this was over the top. The Instant Sexiness B def affected him. Any thoughts about why he responded that hostile? I just read the post about a proffessor having a similar reaction. This was my husband though. Should I be concerned? LOL On a positive note, the Instant Sexiness B put me in a really good mood and I was really happy as long as I didn’t have to deal with my husband.

Hmm, I know you had said that you sometimes come across as intimidating, and that you would like to soften that. I’m thinking that your husband may well have been confused by this new pheromonal “signature”.

Some women use the Instant Sexiness that is “opposite” from their personality, to strengthen or soften others’ perceptions of them. This does not necessarily work for everyone though.

You may be one of those women who is better off using the Instant Sexiness that enhances, or makes more attractive, the aura they already have.

And remember, he was attracted to and married you, along with your personality which was part of attraction.

Next order, try IS/a, and try it on your husband. It may very well enhance and bring out the beauty of your naturally strong pheromonal signature.

Insterestingly, most men seem to respond better to one or the other, that is, they are either IS/a or IS/b types of guys.

I remember reading a post about a woman who was dating a man she was really interested in, and tried each one out, seperately, on different dates with him. It was interesting how he reacted very positively and was much more affectionate when she wore one of the Instant Sexiness’s (I forget which one), but was completely disinterested in her when she wore the other.

You wore Instant Sexiness to the office?

Would you wear a negligee to his office? Would you expect him to remember numbers when you were giving him oral sex?

It is called Instant Sexiness because it’s not for the office.

I suspect it isn’t so much that your husband doesn’t like it. He likes it too much! If you want him to continue to earn a living, use some discretion as to when you wear sexual pheromones.

I dont understand how u could say wearing Instant sexiness is equivalent to wearing negliee to office :roll_eyes: Does it really turn guys on?

I’ve worn IS/A to the office, and it went just fine. A good status-boosting product. Actually, people liked me better. Maybe for this poster, it was just that it was IS/B in combination with location and relationship dynamics with her husband.

Honestly though, I have never really given IS/B a really good solid try.

I do have some coming in my next order, which i need to totally explore properly. I’ll let you guys know what i come up with.

I’ve kind of given up on IS/B, though it does work well on older men, 45+. But the younger guys I’m around respond best to IS/A.

Insteresting…I’ll have to remember that when I test it out.

Its kind of funny, I’ve been here for awhile, and tested all kinds of things, but never gave IS/b a proper try, lol.

Why did you use 5 sprays to start with ? Every new product you get that you have not used before you should start with 1 spray and work up.

This not only helps you find the correct dosage for you it gives those close to us a chance to adjust to the sudden change in signature.

There are no copulins in Instant sexiness B and it is perfectly acceptable and appropriate for a work situation. IS/A or B is like the AMMO for the men. Its a good all round product for use every day and in any environment. Now if she wore LAM to work that would be like using TUTH in the office.

One Instant sexiness either A or B will fit your own personality better. However the only difference in the two products is the ratio of TAH to TAL. My husband is more attracted to the TAL signature because that is more my natural one. This however does not mean he will not react to TAH. I can wear 5 sprays of Instant sexiness A around him with no problem but I only use 1 to 2 of instant sexiness B when around him. More then that and he becomes to domineering and I end up telling him to fuck off.

My guess is you just need to play with your dosage more.

Tisha

Wearing Instant Sexiness or Ammo is more like wearing a slinky dress or sleek Italian suit. Fine for the office and the bar too :wink:
People need to chill and stop fearing sexuality. You can be sexy without being inappropriate or trying to get laid.
Just use you sexuality to add a bit of sparkle to your aura in everyday situations. Makes the world a sunnier place for all of us.

What about TUTH? What is that equivalent to wearing? a thong? lol… I was thinking about 2x TUTH to casual meetings one of these days. Hopefully, nothing bad happens, lol

Moreso equivalent to bedroom eyes :wink:

I bought a bottle of Instant Sexiness B for my GF and she hated it, so I started wearing it. Actually smells good (the scent isn’t very feminine) and buffers NPA and A314 well. I like it better than many of the men’s products. Reactions from both men and women have been good although I never wear it as a standalone and only use 1 or 2 sprays.

Depends on the context and how you act. In a business situation it can easily be aggressive and overbearing if you become even slightly animated and commanding. Nothing sexual at all. In social situations it can be standoffish and repelling unless you counter with strong friendly vibes. Again not sexual. Of course if you send out sexual signals androstenone can really amp them up and, if she’s not into you, you’re basically pitchin’ tent in a thong…

But…but…but, it’s the “American way”, thanks to our Calvinist history.:roll_eyes:

I haven’t noticed my husband having ever been affected by pheros, so I thought that he needed the 5 sprays to get a reaction. In all honesty, I wasn’t really expecting any hits from him. I thought he was immune to these things. I used anohter 5 sprays on a different day and I only went near him to say goodbye. About five minutes later, he says to me. “Something is different about you. It’s not your attitude. You’re standing around, you look so defeated.” LOL Defeated? Wow, noone has ever used that word to describe me before. So I went out and I had awful anxiety for about two hours after I noticed the way a guy in his late thirties/early forties was looking at me. It really scared me, he looked at me like he was getting so much pleasure out of thinking about doing awful things to me. A good looking guy in his mid forties hit on me, and I got a lot of attention from guys in their mid to late forties. Not nearly as much attention from anyone younger, and I normally get a lot of attention from younger guys. Will update later.

Cindy, do you have any IS/A? You should definitely try that on your husband.

A majority of guys prefer one temperament or another in a woman, that is, some guys are more attracted to and turned on by the softer types of women who need to be protected, and other guys (like your husband) are more attracted to the stronger Type A kind of women (which you naturally are).

I don’t have IS/A, but I can’t wait to get it. I can’t buy it right now because my husband doesn’t know that I’m using pheros, and I don’t want him to get suspicious by seeing another bill on the credit card. :smiley: I admit that I used to be skeptical about the products from androtics because they have such a good community. They really do work. I tried Instant Honesty on my husband. He’s not much of a talker with me and I just really needed someone to chat with. I sprayed two sprays, one on each wrist. We were laying down in bed and his body langauge and mind were so distant from me. I began to touch his hair, hoping the pheros would affect him. I didn’t use a cover scent cause I didn’t want him to wonder why I was wearing perfume to bed. I smelled one of my wrists and I thought the smell was so bad, I couldn’t even inhale all the way. Just as I began to get self-conscious, he tells me “you smell so good”. And he quickly turned toward me and hugged me. It’s very unlike him to cuddle with me unless he’s just hugging me back, and even then he’s not much of a hugger. He then had sex with me, and he was sweet. Normally he is passionate, but sex is sex and it doesn’t feel like love making. He was much different this time. When we finished he told me “that felt so right”. He is very fact oriented and words like Felt, and feelings in general are not something he cares to mention. So Instant Honesty really turns him on. I wasn’t aware that it was a sexy pheromone. Any thoughts about that?

As I’m sure you know, marriages can fall into “ruts”, both people start to kind of take each other for granted and don’t remember to appreciate the qualities in each other that attracted them to each other in the first place.

As you said, the sex had become just sex and didn’t feel like “love making”. There is “fucking” and there is “making love”, and I agree, making love is so much better and more emotionally satisfying as well.

I think the Instant Honesty made him stop and appreciate the woman he fell in love with and married. It made him stop and realize what is so real about you, that you are a person and not just a walking sperm receptacle.

Instant Honesty is about depth of feeling and trust. It makes sense.