Well in order to get the Tony Stark effect going you have to be working the 297 and is best suited for that when you have it mixed with IS and Ammo so idk if you were just wearing the 297 or what but if so try mixing it with ammo.
As far as getting the cool guy/tony stark vibe just by what you posted here you aren’t going to get it that way. Don’t ask a girl if she likes how you smell or ask for her approval about anything like that, with this mix they should be working for your approval not the other way around, makes you seem self conscious which in cases lowers your status to girls.
So try out with Ammo and work on your game! Whether its a friend or not, they are better to practice on since you already know them and are comfortable around them, try to ignore a lot of PUA stuff, some good tips in there but don’t do it by the book, be yourself.